March 9th, 2026
posted by [personal profile] anniemal at 04:11am on 2026-03-09
There's only one way out of getting old and creaky. Right. I hav the joy of diabetes. I just have to eat a box of chocolates and a box of Boston Creme doughnuts and lapse into a coma. For the rest of you, the politest (is that a word?) Ummm, the most polite way to kill yourself, according to the woman who knows everything, and I'll attest to it. Quick, when was "the mauve decade"? After some resarch I found it to be the 1870s. Aniline dyes. I am supposed (according to Steve) to be always right. Lisa knows everything. And if I'm always on the side of Truth and Beauty, no matter what the cost, I'm doing my best. Okay?

So, according to sh who has thought about it, you get a motel or hotel room. Do you want to pass in style? light a bunch of candles 'round the tub. Run a nic warm bath. Change th sign on your door to "call 911" so profssionals who are used to handling corpses will b the ons to deal with what you leave behind. Then climb into the tub, breathe deeply, and slit your wrist. Aftr you die you won't have to care.

But keep in mind that this decision is irrevocable. If you're curious about what happens next,you won't get to find out. Be quite sure. Maybe call a friend, if you have one, just to double check.

This was a Sunday morning discussion at our dining room table while we shard The Post. I don't remember what we ate, proving myself of imperfect memory. Damn! It was only thirty years ago.

Not like my Kindergarten tacher's name: Mrs. Pyluck, whose husband taught me in ighth grade for Algebra. but h died halfway through the year, and we had first one mangy sub(a brother of Ginny), then a really bad replacement another fucking relative--mothr of a football jock. Mrs. Cleary Change the "C" to a "B" and you've got the idea. Half the bloody class failed the Rgents' that Year. Stinkin' Vstal Cntral Schools.

Should I have been an investigative journalist? Nah. I'd be dead already.

Oh my. The darling puss has deigned to eat a slice of cold cut turkey breast.
Music:: not NPR
posted by [personal profile] anniemal at 02:41am on 2026-03-09
You look away from me. ENforce your borders or fear? Is every interaction some power struggle? honeypie darling? You are my fearless little. You watch our doors and will attack. I have seen and experienced. D'Glenn got this cat after Perrine, the poor lass who abortd four fetuses on hr front stairs. I dealt with that, too. I'm good at fearsome ugly stuff. I guess it takes a certain temperament. Dead baby cats. 17 yrs later, dead lover. C'est la vie et la mort. The basic facts of xistnce. As in "If you can read this, you've had basic public schooling." Bottom line inevitable. If you're analyzing it (Linguistics gives much amusement sometimes), you went to a fancy school. (Considers all the meanings and connotations of the string "fancy".) Amazing what emergs when the "E" key shudders. nglish is so polyglot.

so now he's gone prowling. xactly what an intact formr strt cat dos with his trritory. Brent continually reminds me about how many other pople wantd That Cat. Umm wanta cat who shits all ovr? Want to track down his reason? I'm fairly sure it's constipation. I am also an expert laundress. Can you deal with a couple of male cat pee stains and still love the guy? RIIIGHT! According to most poples' knowldge, unneutered male street cats mustn't happen. Since I haven't a poodle, and he attacks strangers, h's just fine as h is. Just bcause I trust not thos who pack th testosterone (It affects their brains, makes them aggressive, flaky and untrustworthy).

Okay, but that's how men kept women down for thousands of years. It's their hormones make war. Women make co-operation. Women who want to be men, I can't understand quite. Stooping to their level. I was once at a lunch table with three other women in a restaurant full of tabls of men. I accidentally brought conversation to a halt when I said "but would you ever want to BE one?". There was a universal stop in our thinking. None of us wanted to be one of those creatures. Thy wre smoking, and laughing crudely and loudly. I think we wondrd why we were ating there at all. I mean, we were hungry. Even civilised working women gotta eat. Mayb w were invading a man-hole. I don't know. what was then is not now. I thought this country would be better by now.

Oh, h's back. Want a bit of slickring? Only cat I evr met that liks wirebrush. Nut job.darling. Wishmy husband wantd love.
location: usual
Music:: Da Vinci's Inquest/NPR
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I mentioned the Pokemon game as one of the not entirely coincidental reasons we went to the RLM tournament in Grand Rapids on Friday. There was another tournament going on, at the Sparks In The Mall location in whichever exactly Detroit suburb it is, the one with all the Pee-Wee Hermans hidden around. We might have gone there instead, and while we couldn't have played Pokemon there it's not like the game won't be around everywhere soon enough.

But a deciding factor was the threats of weather. Eastern Michigan was under a heavy fog advisory, with visibility incredibly low and after a harrowing experience [profile] bunny_hugger had a couple weeks back she did not want to face that again. Western Michigan, though, and an hour later the central band where we live, would be facing severe thunderstorms. But the forecasts and radar projections suggested the heavy weather would hit while we were inside buildings, so we picked that as the likely-safer option.

It did not amuse either of us when, approaching Grand Rapids (annoyingly RLM Amusements is on the opposite side of the city), the sky dimmed to a quarter its previous brightness in around sixty seconds. We were driving into a heavy storm, with multiple lightning flashes at once, although fortunately it was at this particularly intense level for only a couple minutes. After that it was steady rain but not heavy enough to be threatening.

While we didn't encounter anything bad on the drive home, home did. There were reports of a hecking lot of flooding including in our area; apparently the gas station two blocks away was under four feet of water until someone got the drain unplugged. And people living downtown by the Grand River got hail smashing their car hoods. Our house, maybe a mile and a half away, got nothing but a full goldfish pond cured of the last bits of the ice cover. And personally faced nothing worse than the Taco Bell we hoped to get a post-pinball dinner from being unexpectedly closed. Wild.


I continue exploring Glen Echo Park here, with a half-dozen pictures going from the bumper cars all the way to almost the front of the park. There is a reason my photos are running like nine months behind ``current''.

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The eyebrow roof of the bumper cars building, with pictures of bumper cars ready to bump. I don't know if this is (a restoration of, surely) what the ride had when the park last operated or if it's a modern construction to evoke what the art was like.


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Standing by the bumper cars looking at the carousel building, left, and Pop Corn/the arcade, on the right.


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Past the Pop Corn building we get a passage to the front, with a candy shop in front and what looks like a small castle out front. Note on the right the National Park Service shield.


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Candy Corner there; I don't know when it last operated although the signs in the window suggest that maybe we were just not there on the right day to get something.


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Very close to the front here! And I got a picture of someone else taking a dramatic photo looking up the rock wall. I don't know why but I failed to take a similar picture myself.


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I swear, we're almost to the front. I just wanted to highlight the style of what would otherwise just be boring supports of the overhang; it really lets you know when they built this in the late 30s/early 40s they wanted to be in fashion. You could almost take this and drop it into the Emerald City sequences and with a coat of paint it'd fit .


Trivia: Between 1917 and 1918 Bridgeport, Connecticut --- with Remington Arms (making rifles, cartridges, and bayonets), the Locomobile Company (making trucks), Lake Torpedo Boat Company (submarines) --- grew from 114,000 people to 166,000. Source: A Call To Arms: Mobilizing America for World War II, Maury Klein.

Currently Reading: The Bright Ages: A New History of Medieval Europe, Matthew Gabriele, David M Perry. Sorry, people normally have 20 baby teeth and not the 32 that would match their adult teeth? How have I gone over a half-century without hearing a word of this? (It comes up in a discussion of people's responses to the Black Death, one of them being that allegedly children were being born with more teeth, the change in human bodies matching the fundamental change God had wrought in the world.)

March 8th, 2026
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posted by [personal profile] twistedchick at 11:24pm on 2026-03-08
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posted by [personal profile] totient at 05:45pm on 2026-03-08
Relative to my Iron Butt superpower, a very fast drive from Boston to DC yesterday. I picked up the car in Harvard Square instead of Somerville and brought my luggage with me, so I got to the Mass Pike quickly and easily saving at least 10 minutes and maybe more like 15. The car was unremarkable but got decent enough gas mileage not to need refueling, as neither did I. I hit 10 minutes of traffic total for NYC and another 10 minutes south of Baltimore. Total elapsed time 6:51 which is not a record but it's close, and I think only the second time I've made this drive in under 7 hours. The other time, in June 2020, is not a fair comparison.

For 24-hour one-way rentals like this I get an AYCE toll pass and it finally dawned on me that this made the I-95 express lanes north of Baltimore free. They probably saved me about 45 seconds. Not worth the buck and change it would have cost me a la carte.
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posted by [personal profile] anniemal at 01:48pm on 2026-03-08
OMG (not that I think there is one. Man created god in his own tiny mind, to explain all the things women asked about.And we suckers bought it for awhile. Why do you think witchcraft had to begin? Mn thought of womn as a separate (inferior) spcis. Oh, they fuckd them alright, and guardd them from ohter mals so that maybe the babies they bore might bear half their genes. Not much different through the ages, eh?

Appropriate musings for a Sunday. Yes?

My damn frrt brain has many other thoughts., unworthy.

Emotions are real, and not always real controllable.
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posted by [personal profile] selki at 03:27pm on 2026-03-08 under
DC area folks may be interested in lovely Glen Echo Park pictures in several recent entries by [personal profile] austin_dern . His way is to write journal entries (mostly about amusement park visits & history, hence the Glen Echo shots) and then include a batch of photos which may not be about that journal entry at all. But there are some very nice pictures of the Bumper Car Pavillion, the carousel, and more.  

Books: I am really glad I read (listened to) Cat Sebastian's After Hours at Dooryard Books (thanks to [personal profile] lcohen 's recommendation). Set in 1968 NYC*, a bookstore manager teaches his secretive new assistant about the business and then the bookstore manager's just-widowed sister and her baby move in. Aside from the slow burn love story (with the assistant), there's a fair bit about folk music, the music industry, anti-war protests of the time, walks through the city, and how to keep going when many things are terrible. Lots of resonance with our time, some love and hope, and a very good read. 
* Incidentally, one of three books with garbage strikes I read in February, just happened that way.  

Home life
  • This year my house is 100 years old and I am 60 years old, so maybe I should plan a big backyard party for us both for May or later. After a very cold and snow-laden February, suddenly it's getting very warm, so in theory I could throw a party sooner, but I have too much chores to put on a big party. 
  • Mainly, I need to deal with my taxes (I know, I know), get my car fixed (a small crack on my windshield last weekend has this week meandered over a foot across so I got an appointment for next week), get a passport replacement (stymied b/c I accidentally threw the old one away in a folder of Germany maps, and the forms don't quite cover that and I don't want to lie), and do some de-cluttering.
  • My basement computer which is the more secure Ethernet-connected one where I like to do my financial stuff wouldn't display to its monitor for a while but it's better now (I took fresh backups as soon as I temporarily fixed it) so I really need to get going on organizing 2024 tax materials. 
  • I have played a lot of Garden Joy and Polytopia this weekend.

Work
  • The worst federal lead has had us do a lot with metrics and road map for a big presentation he has next week. We finally got things into shape that pleases him Friday. Also, he attended some new-to-him meetings I was in last Thursday, finally realized I do a lot of work and have a lot of expertise he was ignoring, and spoke to me with a little more appreciation Thursday evening. We'll see if that lasts.
  • The work for the OTHER federal lead went by the wayside for a while and I need to pick it back up and jam on it before our meeting Wednesday afternoon.
  • Middle and upper management at both my employer and my client are jamming AI down our throats, the worst literally to the point of "But ChatGPT says" to contradict our recommendations.  
  • I now have to drive in to the DC office 2x week. I love my old house but am sometimes a little overwhelmed by it (basement leak, etc.) and the yard, especially since my sister moved out. So I actually looked at 3 town/rowhouses a 20-minute walk from work, and I really like and could afford one of them, but I really shouldn't think about applying for a new mortgage until I file those taxes, plus this may not be the time to go back into debt. The commute is really tiring me out (I know others have it worse), but I am listening to more audiobooks. 
  • I finally made back my hours from the negative leave I was in from the fall shutdown, so maybe I can take a day off later in March. 
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There's a new Pokemon pinball game --- amazingly, the first-ever licensed Pokemon pinball game --- and RLM Amusements out in Grand Rapids got one yesterday. So, not entirely coincidentally, we went there for the weekly pinball tournament. I was never called up on the game during the tournament, which was randomly-picked pairs for the fourteen-round qualifying session and then games picked by the quartet's highest-seed player for playoffs. But I did get one game in late, past 1 am, and it went pretty well. Along the way I caught a Stufful, which [profile] bunny_hugger --- who understood what I meant by saying it was a ``Stuffit'' --- explained on the drive home to be kind of a plush red panda, so at least the game knew who was playing it and what they'd look for. (I mean given the weird ongoing failure of Pokemon to make a good raccoon-based creature.) Also since I've never played the video games or the card games or any other spinoff of the intellectual property, this means that the 7th of March, 2026 saw me catch my first Pokemon ever and it was this.

Otherwise, well, this was the first time this year I've made it to an RLM tournament. Since my last visit they've put Scorbit data-gathering things on many of the tables. These allow for the results of matches to be logged automatically. And since the games are logged to Matchplay.events, we can go back afterwards and look at score versus number of balls and score versus ball time, and also just how long each ball was in play. Other than logging the results automatically, this isn't actually useful but I suppose will someday make prop betting easier.

[profile] bunny_hugger went in and put up what's got to be her best performance in qualifying, winning 12 of her 14 matches and coming in tied for second. The only person to beat her --- with 13 wins --- was a guy who's the 12th-highest ranked player in the world. She did great in the semifinals round, taking first-place finishes in two games (which is always going to let you move on) and a third-place finish on the other (for a little bonus). Unfortunately in semifinals (in a group led by that 12th-place-worldwide guy) she had a worse time of it, taking last places on everything and finishing the night in 8th place, just as she would if she'd decided to go home rather than play the next round. But there's never knowing that before you play.

And in every regard she did better than me: in qualifying I put up a mere eight wins, enough to get into playoffs, and the last win coming against JTK. In the quarterfinals I was playing RLM (top seed) and a woman I'd noticed all night --- CP --- wearing a shirt with what looked like a 50s-children's-book-watercolor-picture of a deer with a huge safety pin through its body. She would explain that it was the logo for a metal band. Anyway in this group I took last place on Harry Potter, and second place on Getaway. RLM had won both games so was assured to move on, and the rest of us were tied for the other advancing slot. RLM decided to toss a bit of chaos into the mix and deferred choice of game to JJL.

JJL picked Fast Draw, an electromechanical, and one of my pocket games that I can always pull out a good finish on. Reader, I did not. My first ball got a mere 10 points, the lowest possible. My second ball got five times that. It wouldn't be until the fourth ball that I got anything together and it wasn't much of that. Fifth ball drained without my touching it too, and I went not just to a last-place finish but a dismal one, literally a hundred thousand points behind CP.

So that came out dismal. But on the bright side we got to talking with CP and her wife --- bonding first over all of us wearing N95's or KN95's --- and quite liked them, and they seem to like us too. So hey, maybe new pinball friends? That's always nice to see.


In pictures, I'm going to spend today focusing on a specific aspect of the former bumper cars pavilion at Glen Echo Park. Why? You'll see momentarily.

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Carving of a bumper car that's one of a bunch of sculptures hanging on the pavilion's walls.


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Here's two people crammed into the bumper car.


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And a picture of a car also being a Dutch wooden shoe.


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And here's the fourth bumper car design seen in this array of pictures.


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Finally, some cars bumping!


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And one last design of bumper cars. I have no information about which of these body designs were ever on the ride here.


Trivia: After his first experiments with X-rays showed their ability to see through solid objects --- including seeing the bones of his own hand --- Wilhelm Röntgen locked himself in the lab for seven weeks to find what possible mistake he was making and to try to find a more plausible explanation than ``X-rays can see through solid objects''. At some point he joked to his wife that ``I'm doing work that will make people say, 'Old Röntgen has gone crazy!'.'' Source: The Disappearing Spoon: And Other True Tales of Madness, Love, and the History of the World From the Periodic Table of the Elements Sam Kean.

Currently Reading: The Bright Ages: A New History of Medieval Europe, Matthew Gabriele, David M Perry.

March 7th, 2026
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posted by [personal profile] the_sheryl at 09:10pm on 2026-03-07 under ,
Here's what I read last month:

Murder in Fifth Position - Lori Robbins
Bye, Bye Blackbird- Elizabeth Crowens
Murder in the Crazy Mountains - K.L. Borges
Mood:: 'sleepy' sleepy
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posted by [personal profile] watersword at 02:55pm on 2026-03-07

Good gravy, this semester is tough. I'm juggling a million different things and keeping my head above water, but only just. Admittedly, a number of things I am juggling are not work things (birthday trip planning! proof of Canadian-ness! community service!) and everything will get 100% easier when it is above 50° every day and the world isn't pitch black at 6pm, but until that time is upon us, I am apparently going to be surviving on pizza and hummus.

My internet, which is allegedly FIOS, is periodically deciding that it does not want to be an internet, it wants to be a lumberjack, and rebooting the router does not do a whole lot. This is kind of a problem given that I work from home and build things on the internet. I feel like I'm back in 1998 on dial-up. I spent thirty minutes fighting the phone tree and then the customer service agent tried to sell me a new router and a new plan, which: no. I want the thing I am already paying for to work!

Implementing a shared zookeeper routine is working out super well so far; I get to play with a friend's kid so she can concentrate on chores and she keeps me from becoming one with the couch, which is my true desire.

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After seeing numerous recommendations, I finally got the book Atomic Habits from the library. As is my way, I have made extensive notes and am trying to apply it to everything in sight.

I have also been giving some thought to changing habits in retirement. Some existing habits bear revisiting: for example, did you know, Mr Diane & I have been getting up at staggered times... which is a remnant of when we only had 1 bathroom, over 20 years ago. Some new habits are also available now, such as doing grocery shopping on a weekday or ACTUALLY WORKING ON THAT DAMN QUILT.

One habit I've successfully tweaked: I had been lifting weights twice a week (doing basically the same 2 at-home routines I came up with during lockdown) but recently started struggling to get it done. I decided to simplify and make it totally boring/mindless: I stole a short list of exercises from an NPR article in January, took out a couple that I hate, added in some more upper body and should PT exercises, and have been successfully doing this routine THREE times a week since the beginning of February.

It'll be interesting to see what else I come up with. March is utter chaos, so I'm keeping my expectations low. Maybe the chaos will shake some things loose in my brain and open up new possibilities.

Needless to say this is the year I officially gave up on took a break from bullet journaling, and now I actually understand how habit tracking is SUPPOSED to work so I may need to start again.
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posted by [personal profile] vvalkyri at 02:20am on 2026-03-07
Entirely impromptu: I texted around to a few different people to say I was going to be out Bethesda ward and ended up getting together with high school friend and his three teens at California Pizza kitchen at Montgomery mall and then there was wandering around the mall and his teens are cool and it had been too long and the selfie as we were partying was deemed adorable by my other friend, his wife.

And then I sent another friend a happy birthday and our messaging history looked like we hadn't talked in like a year and I said I was going to have about a half an hour drive home and care to chat and then we did chat about all sorts of different things for about 4 hours past both of our bedtime and she's on the other coast and it was lovely almost like going to visit as I did several years ago before she moved across the country.

But Joe was going to be coming for lunch at 11:00 and I'm realizing if I also want to possibly be galavanting around in an inflatable frog suit at Stand Up For Science (noon to 3 near Hirshhorn) at noonish I should probably tell him to show up earlier than 11:00 if possible.


Eep ;)
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posted by [personal profile] kimberlogic at 06:28pm on 2026-03-06
 *waves*

Thanks to those who reminded me to return to this place, though today's reason is a sad one.
I'm glad to be "with" everyone and looking forward to hugging some of you soonest.

This week has brought me back around to wanting to be sure to say the things that I would want any of you to hear or know NOW, while I can be sure that my love reaches you.


posted by [personal profile] anniemal at 04:13pm on 2026-03-06 under
His name is (maybe was) Chuck Malloch (Charles Bernard Malloch), and he shattered me against the pavement like a china tea cup. Oh yeah, it was thirty-two (half my lifetime) years ago, but it was the start of many bad things. It's his birthday. Also the combination to his alarm system thirty-two years ago. Narcissistic brat.

I did reassemble myself, but the glued-together version is not quite the same as the mostly self-confident previous one. I hold warm liquid, but worry about the adhesive showing, or coming apart. Wish I could say I've completely forgiven the asswipe, but I confess that I hope most of his days are rotten and the good ones remind him of how rotten the other ones are. Not likely, but after what he put me through, fair play.

Have a lousy birthday, Chuck!

There was a better, more profound thought that I should've typed first. I always forget the good ones while typing the whiny ones.

My "E" key is going. Mayb it's tim to get th new computer out of the drawer. It's going, not quite dad yet. Oh, that typo! *chortle*
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The big Six Flags/Cedar Fair merger has finally reached the point it's causing us personally to lose something. We've had some effects before, but most of them were neutral-to-good, like getting into Six Flags America cheap.

So the problem with the merger is that the much bigger Six Flags is still losing, like, all the money in the world, and things like closing Six Flags America and announcing when they're closing California's Great America won't change that. They're at the point where they're trying to raise money by selling off things, so they're probably at most two years away from going bankrupt yet again.

So this brings us to Michigan's Adventure, which for years has been the quiet, good little child of the Cedar Fair operation. Doesn't get much attention (it's not literally true that its big upgrade for 2024 was ``a new bathroom'' but it's very close), doesn't need much attention: families love it as is and more of them come, and spend a lot of money, every year. If every park in the chain were like this the chain would have no rational complaints. But this also means it's one of the parks that they could put up for sale and find a buyer for.

So that's what happened. Six Flags sold Michigan's Adventure and six other parks to EPR Properties, a real estate investment trust, which has got hastily set up --- [personal profile] bunnyhugger noted their initial logo was clearly AI slop and now it's cleaned-up AI slop --- Enchanted Parks. For this year that won't change anything, since season passes were already sold, but for 2027 and beyond? Who knows?

And the scary thing? Beyond having to change what's our home park for our long-standing season passes, and having to buy a season pass for a second chain? EPR Properties has mostly run water parks in the past, and there's a reasonable fear that they're looking to shut down the dry parks and just keep the wet. Besides losing the amusement park in an easy day-trip drive, losing Michigan's Adventure would also cost three wooden roller coasters.

Globally, the sale is probably a good thing in that an industry is usually healthier when it has a lot of comparably-sized companies rather than a handful of big ones. And to get that means things like Six Flags with an estimated 2,038 parks in the United States and Canada should be shedding places. It's just always sad when the thing you think would be good for the community is bad for you personally.

Also it's going to be really sad if we lose Shivering Timbers and Six Flags goes bankrupt anyway.


Speaking of shuttered parks, here's stuff from Glen Echo Park.

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The Cuddle-Up pavilion now gets some use as a performing stage and there's bleacher seating for extra audience space.


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Way off past the end of the old midway is this fountain; I don't know if it ever had water or was always a garden.


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Here's the view back from that fountain along the midway.


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Small and surprisingly haunted-looking building next to what had been the bumper cars building.


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The bumper cars building has this section hazard-taped off, I guess for the trap door?


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I suppose it's now an event space; you can imagine dances and wedding receptions and all fitting in here well.


Trivia: Bell Aircraft's X-16 was not a legitimate research aircraft but an attempt to hide the development of a spy plane. Though 28 of the craft were ordered, none were completed before the Lockheed U-2 demonstrated it could serve the spy flight missions. Source: American X-Vehicles: An Inventory - X-1 to X-50, Dennis R Jenkins, Tony Landis, Jay Miller.

Currently Reading: The Bright Ages: A New History of Medieval Europe, Matthew Gabriele, David M Perry.

March 6th, 2026
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posted by [personal profile] malada at 07:50am on 2026-03-06 under
Excuse me, but did anyone have "Puppy-Killer Gets Fired for Sex Jet" on their bingo card?

Next!
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posted by [personal profile] sabotabby at 07:18am on 2026-03-06 under
 Events, dear friends, have been piling up faster than I can write about them—personal tragedies, global horrors, and work conspiring to keep me at a pace where I have not yet emerged from under the weight of one massive project before I'm saddled with the next. Needless to say things are happening but I get approximately 15 minutes of laptop time a day if the subway cooperates and it's largely spent answering emails.

Anyway, on with the podcasts. This week's episode is from a new-to-me podcast, A Bit Fruity with Matt Bernstein. I heard him on Bad Hasbara and he was very funny and insightful, and his actual podcast doesn't disappoint. My favourite episode so far has been "She Had Elon's Baby. Then, Leopards Ate Her Face," featuring Ashley St. Clair and Juniper.

I didn't know the name off the top of my head but Ashley was one of those far-right grifters/pick-me girls who is very traditionally pretty and thus assumed that there was no need for feminism. She wrote an extremely transphobic children's book that I had actually heard of because it was on one of Queen Coke Francis's video essays*. The title of the episode is not precisely accurate, in that the leopards in question started gnawing Ashley's face before she gave birth, as she had started to turn away from her transphobic stance when she was pregnant with her second child.

You have questions. I also had questions. One of the reasons this particular episode is so good is that Matt handles everything as responsibly as anyone can. He has Juniper (the trans podcaster/editor who, among other accomplishments, popularized "goblin mode"), who was the one who engaged with Ashley as she made her turn away from the dark side. Neither one of them softball the conversation, laying the harms that Ashley did out very clearly, and questioning whether she has actually changed or whether this is another grift (for the record, neither of them conclude that it's a grift).

It's a hard listen because obviously it is. Trans people are being targeted for genocide around the world and especially in the US, and Ashley was one of its instigators. It asks hard questions: Can people change? Is the community that they harmed obligated to believe and accept those changes? What does it mean to make amends and reparations, or to build trust? What can we do to deradicalize people (note: Ashley's redemption arc seems to have started with queer and trans folks engaging her online, which I'm legitimately surprised at)? 

Anyway it brought me a little bit of desperately needed hope so maybe it will help you too.


* Check her out if you do YouTube video essays. She's a drag queen who mainly covers culture war stuff and she's hilarious.
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On my humor blog there's some bonus comic strip content, some complaining about LLMs stealing my writing, one of my favorite Robert Benchley pieces, and a bit of nonsense about CHiPs because I was thinking about them for some reason. Enjoy!


And now let's continue with pictures from early July and the photographic beauties of Glen Echo Park.

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Here's a view of the park's carousel, looking up a bit so you can see the arch of the carousel building, and also the slightly artistic touch of the outside reflected in the rounding board mirrors.


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Better view of the tiger and two rabbits behind. So, how much does it remind you of Cedar Point's Kiddie Kingdom Carousel?


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Some more of the horses on the carousel; you see what having National Park money behind the restoration will get you.


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Also look at that jester's head; seen one anywhere near that on, like, my Kiddie Kingdom pictures?


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Of course they have a band organ off to the side and it looks precious too.


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[personal profile] bunnyhugger looking eagerly for tickets and it turns out you get them nowhere near the carousel because ??? ?? ?????. Anyway look at that great old rock-wall cladding at the base of the carousel building.


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So we had to go past the Pop Corn stand, which is now in use for some artistic inspiration thing ...


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And which is connected to the Arcade (no longer an arcade) and The Puppet Company (which is where we get tickets). Also, gads, what a beautiful building.


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And past The Puppet Company are a bunch of fronts that were probably once midway game stalls but now host things like placards explaining the history of the place.


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Here's one explaining the old arcade, from before the one you see here. Yes, I too am interested what was in the Lot O Fun.


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[personal profile] bunnyhugger explores what had been the ride building for the Cuddle Up (a small teacups-type ride).


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We couldn't be there at night, in case they still ever turn the neon on, but at least we can look at what had been the ticket booth beneath the lights.


Trivia: Between 1750 and 1786, Toulouse's spending on public roads increased from 1,200 livres per year to 198,000. Source: The Discovery of France: A Historical Geography, By the end of this era Toulouse had postal services operating for up to 90 miles from the city.

Currently Reading: Prehysterical Pogo (In Pandemonia), Walt Kelly.

March 5th, 2026
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posted by [personal profile] vvalkyri at 05:03pm on 2026-03-05
Which before I explain I should offer condolences to those who knew the person in Bostonish who recently died. I did not, other than somewhat by reputation and very much in passing, but she was very special to many people and seemed like someone it was yet again my loss to not know.


But this post is inspired by my mild befuddlement at just how much Rusty Old American Dream by David Wilcox makes me cry.

Some of us on the mutual Aid group are meeting at dew drop inn later tonight for a planning meeting. And someone referenced a song called Uneasy Rider that mentions a Dew Drop Inn (its lyrics are quite the ride) and something about the first lines gave me the earworm.

So I brought up the YouTube and I was singing along and started crying. And then later grabbed the lyrics to drop back into that chat and sang it without the YouTube and was back to sobbing.

I certainly didn't get enough sleep last night. But come to think of it I kind of remember this song has often done this. It's probably easy enough to figure out which lyric.


In other news it's been nice out today and I was up till 6:00 a.m. because someone called at 3:00 when they saw I was up because I sent something to a group chat and I guess that was helpful because I did actually almost finish unpacking from Presidents Day weekend. But it was less helpful because when I finally managed to get off the phone at 5:00 I was quite awake.

I had had tentative plans with happy that I had forgotten about and then remembered and then sent him a note at 5:00 saying hey I'm not in bed yet even and then his meeting ran late enough that he messaged right about the same time I actually opened my eyes and then we made our way to falafel and came back and I'm sad that falafel Incorporated is no longer carrying their vegan shawarma because they've started doing chicken shawarma and they had already had chicken shawarma but I think they're just trying to keep their menu very narrow. But I expressed my dismay and then someone else came in and is vegan herself and doesn't like falafel so she left and did not buy anything and I noted that maybe the people behind the counter might want to keep a running tally as to how many people Express dismay and how many people then leave without buying something. Their vegan shawarma was amazing.

But the falafel salad was also good.

And then somehow the last two and a half hours have gone poof. Some of it has been trying to follow up on maybe getting some kites made since No Kings 3 is the same day as the Cherry blossom kite festival and one of the events will be pretty nearby.

And then there was trying to signal boost a call for people to call their Congress critters and complain about dismantling department of education and trying to shove special education in with like department of Labor.

And then I'm not even sure.

I'm kind of tempted to go to Blues tonight because I like both of the people DJing but then that complicates matters for the earlier part of the evening.

And I'm also just so exasperated with kind of everything of late.

And how is it March?
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posted by [personal profile] malada at 11:38am on 2026-03-05 under
...well, actually Mr. MAHA seems upset about all that sugar.

Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. is gearing up for on iced coffee. The Big Huge ones with lots of sugar.

Look, we all know shoveling a lot of sugar is bad but seriously? Iced coffee? Aren't there more important things to worry about like MEASLES and WHOOPING COUGH?

Yeah, screw you, Kennedy. I will not give up my sweet sweet coffee. Come and take if, asshole.

Even though I don't care for iced coffee. Coffee should be strong as iron, dark as death and as sweet as love.
Mood:: 'restless' restless
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posted by [personal profile] zenlizard at 10:50am on 2026-03-05 under
Mood:: 'indescribable' indescribable
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Meanwhile in petty business. The passenger-side headlight on my car burned out, which very slightly irked me since I was pretty sure I had just replaced it last year? The year before? Not too long in the scheme of things, anyway. But in replacing it I saw, as if for the first time, that the passenger headlight casing had a lot of moisture in it. I can't swear there was actually rainfall in it, but it was close. Way too many beads of water, at least, which I can't swear didn't have something to do with why the light was so dim even when a working bulb was in place.

So, off to the car dealership, where they explained they recommend replacing the whole fixture when it's that wet inside. This seemed reasonable enough to me and so I came back a couple days later after the one they ordered got in. The headlight assembly was more expensive than I would have guessed, but the installation was a lot quicker; I don't think it could have taken an hour.

The result was a great success. The like-new fixture is dry as far as I can tell, and without 147,000+ miles of colliding with air to cloud it up, it's ferociously bright. To the point that now my driver's side fixture looks pathetically dim. [personal profile] bunnyhugger was surprised I didn't get both changed at the same time and now that I've seen how much better the light looks? I might go for it the next time I'm getting the car serviced. We'll see.


Now to see Glen Echo Park, though, once upon a time an amusement park on the outskirts of Washington D.C. and now a national park with a special feature.

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We're getting closer to the excitement: we've found UFOs!


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And here's the thing we most wanted to get to. Glen Echo Park's kept its antique carousel, and it's got the care and attention that a Smithsonian exhibit gets, only you can ride it.


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And hey, why did an amusement park on the outskirts of a big and growing city like Washington, D.C., close in the 60s? Could it have anything to do with finally being forced to integrate? (If an amusement park closed in the 60s, there's a good chance it was because Black people were finally allowed in any old day and the white people were not even remotely normal about it.)


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The stand claims Pop Corn, but it's really more Art Deco. (It's been decades since you could get snacks there regularly.)


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Here's a picture explaining about the history of the ride, along with a picture of the thing you're right in front of.


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... And here it is! Notice the two Dentzel rabbits on the inner rows, just behind the tiger?


Trivia: In 1906 New Orleans had only two vaudeville houses, the Greenwald and the Orpheum. In 1921, when the city's population was 387,408, there were four: Loew's Crescent, the Louisiana, the Orpheum, and the Palace. Source: The Encyclopedia of Vaudeville, Anthony Slide.

Currently Reading: Prehysterical Pogo (In Pandemonia), Walt Kelly.

March 4th, 2026
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posted by [personal profile] vvalkyri at 11:09pm on 2026-03-04
So I scroll back 14 days but if anything's important with you from before 14 days then I couldn't easily scroll back.

I don't even remember when it was I last posted. There's all sorts of things I've been highly annoyed about lately but haven't really been posting here. I just got back from steel City Blues which I'd sort of been debating whether I was going to or not and eventually decided literally the night before possibly even the day of.

I had a couple weeks of my leg being highly annoying and that finally finished in the aftermath of President's Day weekend, which was also very very good.

I bought a new phone right before President's Day weekend because my normal phone was busy rebooting itself constantly. And I hate this phone so much. Nothing is where it's supposed to be it's incredibly slow the system UI keeps crashing and I didn't come to the conclusion that I wanted to try to return it to Best buy until after the two weeks window for doing so and besides they were going to charge like a $50 restock fee. So bleh. I also am pretty sure that even though nominally I got all my messages to transfer they did not in fact transfer because I sent some birthday greetings to various people and I was like wait a second there should be some sort of message history there and indeed at least with one of them she had messages history...

Drove back from Pittsburgh yesterday and boy howdy was it not hugely clever or two opt for the not toll road. I spent time driving through clouds in the dark. On one lane needs direction roads which every so often actually had reflectors. Do not recommend.

I managed to host some acro in my lobby tonight, with the guy who's nice enough to let me base him and my next door neighbor.

I had done a very little bit of acro over President's Day weekend and otherwise it had been weeks and weeks. And I probably will be doing a blues class instead on Sunday and a friend who lives only a couple blocks away is moving to Alaska so I don't see myself going up to Laurel for acro on Saturday and besides there's the March for science and maybe I'll be there in a frog costume because oh right yeah I was part of that state of the Swamp Thing and I'm quite happy about it.

Last week was I went up to the Wilson building to be part of the free DC filling the hearing room for the MP d oversight hearing.


By the way, DHS is trying to buy a big Warehouse in Maryland where there's a number of different ones. Other places have been successful so far at making that not happen.

I really need to do better at not doing things by dictation
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posted by [personal profile] redbird at 10:56pm on 2026-03-04 under
The trip to New Orleans was very good for [personal profile] cattitude, who had an easier tiee finding food he could eat and enjoy than Adrian and I, but the few days of warm weather did us good as well. (And then the trip home was physically difficult and painful for Adrian, unfortunately.)

I did more walking each day, including but not only the travel days, than I expected or planned, and found it less difficult than I would have predicted.

Saturday afternoon we met my brother at House of Blues, because they had outdoor music and a performer he liked. That was fun, and Adrian enjoyed dancing with an enthusiastic stranger. I think that was the day we took a streetcar downtown in search of lunch, only to find lines for the relatively small number of places with outdoor seating. But I'd wanted to ride a streetcar--streetcars are part of the New Orleans transit network, not just a tourist attraction, so we could get one a couple of blocks from our hotel.

Our hotel had a courtyard, which was part of why Cattitude chose it. The courtyard had an unexpected, charming cat. The drum circle I mentioned in the previous post was in the park across the street from our hotel, which is part of why Mark recommended it.

Also, the New Orleans airport terminal plays music, not very loudly, over the PA system, which is entirely fitting for an airport named after Louis Armstrong, and much better than what comes over the PA at most airports.
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posted by [personal profile] twistedchick at 05:50pm on 2026-03-04
This has been a less easy day.

It's the 35th anniversary of my mom's death.

It still hurts, all of it.

At least, I'm not reliving the whole thing, just dealing with emotional splashback this year.

She died in hospital, during an ice storm, and I was not informed of it until after I'd come up there, so I traveled expecting to see her when she'd passed before I'd gotten the phone call.

And that ties into even nastier family crap that I'm not even going to mention except to say it happened and was absolutely shitty.

So I am sticking to the more cheerful reruns of shows to watch, plus Colbert, and the sillier novels. They don't dig me out, but they keep me from going deeper into the Marianas Trench.
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posted by [personal profile] malada at 05:47pm on 2026-03-04 under
Wednesday is my usual day for light box treatment. It's UVB and with weekly visits over a period of several months my psoriasis mostly cleared and stayed clear.

My scalp, no such luck. It scabbed and oozed and blistered and 60 percent of my hair is gone. Two types of shampoo, two courses of antibiotics - no help. I wear scarves when I go out because the sight of my scalp makes women faint, grown men cry and dogs to howl.

Yes it hurts and itches like hell. Three biopsies showed nothing scary.

So they passed me to a more experienced partner. She walked into the examination room and asked what I was here for.

I took off my scarf. Her eyes widened in horror.

After a quick overview of my treatment she excused herself for several minutes. Several long minutes. She came back with another nurse and gave me a good looking over. She took two more biopsies - not of my scalp - but other odd areas - put me on a different antibiotic and a steroid. She expressed so much concern about my condition she even gave me a little hug as she left.

I'd post pictures of my scalp but I'm afraid they're too gruesome.

I'm hoping to finally get some traction on this.
Mood:: 'hopeful' hopeful
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posted by [personal profile] mrs_sweetpeach at 05:26pm on 2026-03-04 under
location: My home office
Mood:: 'distressed' distressed
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posted by [personal profile] sabotabby at 07:08am on 2026-03-04 under
 It feels very strange and unpleasant to be making my regular book post under the circumstances. Nevertheless.

Just finished: A Drop Of Corruption by Robert Jackson Bennett. This was so much fun, and I'm hooked on the series. It's mostly a lighthearted absolutely nightmare fuel cosmic horror murder mystery, but as the afterword says, it's also kind of a commentary on fantasy's obsession with kings and nobles and what this means for our present political circumstances. Which is to say. Kings. Not a great idea. I disagree with Bennett re: what ASOIaF was trying to do but the book is a great example of how you can smuggle interesting politics in a rip-roaring narrative.

Currently reading: Lullabies For Little Criminals by Heather O'Neill. I love everything she writes and meant to read her most well-known work ages ago but it ended up near the bottom of my physical TBR stack and I'm only now getting to it. This is the story of Baby, a little girl in Montreal whose father is a possibly-schizophrenic heroin addict. Does that sound depressing? Because it is. It's also very much a dark comedy, like it's genuinely fucking hilarious the more searingly awful Baby's life gets. Sometimes I just want fiction to fuck me up, and this does.
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You may, dimly, remember that a couple years ago we snagged some fallen tree limbs after a heavy storm knocked them down all over the neighborhood. And last year we even got a chainsaw to cut them down to the roughly footlong installments that would fit well in our fireplace insert. What we had not done is split the wood so there'd be both bark and exposed ... you know ... wood innards to make for good fire-having.

A couple weeks back [personal profile] bunnyhugger got something that promised to simplify the wood-splitting trade around here. It's a gadget that holds a blade upwards, so that you set the wood on top and hit it with a sledgehammer over and over. The advantage of this over the splitting maul we had is how this lets you save intermediate progress. Only split the wood a couple inches? That's fine, it'll stay there, balanced in place, ready for the next hit. [personal profile] bunnyhugger tried this on her own a couple days ago and was able to split several logs that she would never have been able to do by maul.

Now I finally had the chance to try it out and, you know, it works quite nicely, especially on wood that's been sitting in the driveway two years or whatever it is now. It can take a fair number of starter taps to get it wedged enough to stand upright on the blade. And it can take several reasonable swings to start it going. But once the wood starts splitting it just cracks apart like you're Popeye punching a cinder block or something. Very satisfying. After I'd cut enough for the night's purposes I had to restrain myself from doing just one more log.


Now in our extreme tour: after a full day at Six Flags America we would need to be driving on, hoping to meet up with my brother and then get to HersheyPark. But first ...

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The view from our hotel! At least, from the window beside the elevator. We were a whole ... twelve? ... floors up and this was the highest up we'd been somewhere in a while.


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And here's the view outside in Cinerama!


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So our first visit was to Glen Echo Park, once upon a time an amusement park and now a National Park, with echoes of the amusement park still there. Also, the place was next to New Jersey heroine Clara Barton's final home.


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Neat wooden bridge leading to what I imagine was always the back side of the amusement park. Don't worry, I have photos of the front.


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Coming up to it we passed the Glen Echo Park Aquarium, closed when we visited, but with such let's say folk-art signage that we were enchanted and hope the animals are kept well.


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Also ran across this sign hidden deep in the woods as we got closer to the former amusement park.


Trivia: George Washington was sworn in the 4th of March, 1793, to begin his second term as President. John Adams was not sworn in until the Senate met the 2nd of December, 1793. Source: From Failing Hands: The Story of Presidential Succession, John D Feerick. Adams, you of course recall, had in 1789 begun serving as Vice-President nine days before Washington was sworn in, although it would not be until June that there was even an oath of office for the Vice-President to swear.

Currently Reading: Lost Popeye Zine, Sundays Supplement Volume 20: 1958, Tom Sims, Bill Zaboly. Editor Stephanie Noelle.

PS: If you read about What’s Going on in Rex Morgan, M.D.? Wasn’t _Rex Morgan_ Supposed to Start Looking Weird? December 2025 – February 2026 I'll explain the rules of beloved childhood game Punch Belly Blue!

March 3rd, 2026
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posted by [personal profile] julian at 08:28pm on 2026-03-03
Hey, if anyone's close to Minoanmiss and hasn't heard recent news and wants to, let me know.
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posted by [personal profile] redbird at 01:05pm on 2026-03-03
[Ny is gravely ill, unconscious, and unlikely to recover:]

Update: Ny is gone. As of a couple of hours ago, she no longer has brain function, and will be moved off life support after evaluation for organ transplant, and allowed to die peacefully, not necessarily immediately.

[my earlier info was via princessofgeeks, who linked to [personal profile] goss's post]
Mood:: upset and sad
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posted by [personal profile] rmd at 11:20am on 2026-03-03
Do you have various paperwork in place for things like health care proxy and a will and stuff like that? If not, you might want to do something about all that. Like, you really should.

PARTICULARLY if you would rather than decisions be made by your friends and/or family of choice rather than the folks who are listed as family in government records. (I was going to say 'birth family' but I'm not sure what a good term is that would include adopted and blended families.)

I know there are free/cheap resources out there for doing this stuff for folks with fairly uncomplicated situations, but I haven't used any of them so I have no specific recommendations.
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I have been kicking around a post idea for something like a year or a year and a half, but I've been torn between wanting to write it as a post (and tell you things) and wanting to ask for solutions.

Mr. Bostoniensis and I have been trying to consolidate our household, and the Brave New World of the Internet is... not facilitating this. Vendor after vendor, platform after platform, is organized around the concept of a single user account. Even when company accounts nominally allow multiple user accounts, typically one user account is the real user account and the other has restricted access.

For instance, when setting up joint financial instruments, we split up the work: I would set up the joint bank accounts, he would set up the joint credit cards. We subsequently discovered that he can't access the statements and tax documents in our nominally-joint bank account's online portal, and I can't have an independent login at all for our allegedly joint credit cards that show up on my credit report.

This is infuriating. What we want to happen is that he and I have equal full access to the accounts we share, such that either of us can do what needs to be done on them, which I thought was a pretty normal approach to, well, life. I did not think heterosexual marriage was some sort of weird counter-cultural edge-case, and it offends my software developer soul to be reduced to sharing usernames and passwords.

But that is exactly the case, and I would just hold my nose and do it, except for one thing.

Two-factor authentication.

If I want to be able to two-factor into an account that uses his phone number, I have to access his phone. Something best done while he is not asleep, which, unfortunately, is precisely when I am most likely to want to be paying bills or doing online shopping. Likewise, if he wants to two-factor into an account that uses my phone number, he'll need access to my phone. Which, honestly, he could probably slip into the room and grab off the charger while I'm asleep – which is precisely when he'll be wanting into those accounts – but that does him no good if say I were out of town or in the hospital or some such.

And more and more 2FA is becoming mandatory. You can't turn it off. (Or in the notable case of one of our credit cards, you can turn it off. It will two-factor you anyways, but the account settings assure you it's off.)

Two-factor authentication is stupid and awful for so many reasons, but it has only recently dawned on me that one of them is that 2FA is intended to keep anyone else from logging in to your account and I actually want someone else to log into my account. Legitimately, I think.

So.

Obviously, the Bostoniensis household requires some sort of telephony solution such that:

• text messages (SMS) sent to a single phone number propagate to two cell phones; *

• either of the two cell phones can originate text messages from that single phone number which is not the phone number of either of those phones; **

• and the phone that didn't send the reply gets a copy of it, so it can stay in sync with the convo; ***

• voice calls sent to that single phone number propagate to one, the other, or both simultaneously of the two cell phones, depending on a on-the-fly configurable schedule of when which call goes where; ****

• either cell phone can originate a voice call that will appear to come from the shared number; ****

• ideally, both cell phones could conference into the same call with a third party, but that's a bonus;

• must be compatible with Android phones, an probably needs to support iOS as well; we'd love a solution that also supports web and/or MacOS desktop access, but that's a bonus.

I am looking for recommendations for solutions that (are known to) meet this specification. There are lots of solutions for small businesses, but r/smallbusiness drags a lot of them for filth, and also we're cheap and don't want to pay a fortune, especially for a lot of businessy services we don't need like the ability to spam-SMS 10k prospective customers an hour or (all the rage right now) deploy an AI receptionist or surreptitiously surveil our customer service agents' work for quality and training purposes or integrate with Salesforce.

Also, crucially, a lot of these services seem to be based on a phone tree model, where each handset gets its own extension, and I'm really unclear how that would work with automated voice-call 2FA. Not well, I am guessing.

So what I am looking for is knowing recommendations that can answer from direct experience as to whether a solution will support our intended use case.

Has anybody else even tried to solve this problem? Or does everybody else just accept that financial instruments, online retail accounts, and virtual services can only really belong to one member of a couple at at time?

This seems like something there should be an obvious commercial service for, targetted at families, but the only one I found no longer is in the Play store and also may be wholly defunct.

As a side note, this isn't only relevant for couples. It's relevant to all sorts of multi-adult households, from polycules to multigenerational households. It is of particular relevance to people with aging elders who might want to be able to get into the elder's accounts to help them from afar. Especially adult siblings of aging parents, where no one sibling should be the only person stuck with all the administrative work. It's surprising that I haven't found a commercial solutions to this yet, and wonder if there already is one everybody else already knows about.

* Necessary to allow either member to receive a 2FA text message when either one initiates a log in.

** Necessary in the case we want to revoke texting permission to a third party by "text STOP to end".

*** Necessary not to engage in an inadvertent Abbot and Costello routine.

**** Necessary because every once in a while a 2FA system will barf on texting VOIP numbers, and only successfully get through with automated voice call 2FA. Also it would be nice for one of our other use cases – the "get Siderea's doctor's office to call back and make sure a human answers no matter when they do" use case – for there to be one number that rings through to both of us. But also necessary that we can schedule it not to ring when one or the other of us are asleep, while still ringing through to the other. I need to be able to 2FA at 2:00 A.M. and Mr. B very much needs my doing so not to cause his phone to ring.

***** Maybe not strictly necessary, but there's a lot of systems that react poorly, or at least with more scrutiny, to customer calls about accounts other than the ones associated with the number the call is coming from. It would be better if we just only ever called NStar from the number they have on record for us, but that means we need to be able to originate voice calls from the same number we'll be using with them for security purposes.


Edit: I'm really hoping for a non-Google, commercial solution.
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Back in 2014, seeking even more pinball than we could play in Lansing, we went to the Arcade Pinball League in Brighton, not quite an hour away. It was a fun venue packed with pinball machines from the 60s through the present, and it solidified us as people taking competitive pinball way too seriously. But around 2015 the owner got tired of the venue as it was and moved or sold or both almost all the games, and the league evaporated. For a monthly pinball league about as far away we could play at Marvin's Marvellous Mechanical Museum instead.

Marvin's has been closed for a bit over a year now, far exceeding the five months or so they figured needed to move to their new location and despite their posting a proof-of-life video to Facebonk the desire for a monthly league in that area remained. And, what do you know, but the Arcade had picked up more pinball machines again. We've been there a couple times, for furry meetups, but despite thinking how nice it'd be to just go there and play all day on pay-one-price terms we haven't.

And this is how last Thursday we were at the rebirth of the Arcade Pinball League. Or the creation of a new Arcade Pinball League; identity for groups is a difficult concept to make precise. I even got out my original Arcade Pinball League shirt from twelve years ago to wear, delighting the couple people who noticed.

The format was like what Arcade League had used before, no surprise as Marvin's used the same format: you get in a group of three or four people and take turns picking five games, getting points based on your finish. The first week we were put in ``random'' order, which turns out to be how we checked in for the night, and in future weeks we should be put with players who have about the same standing. This it was by a one-in-four chance that [personal profile] bunnyhugger and I were not in the same group. I ended up in a group, instead, with the guy we'd seen at Pinball At The Zoo last year who was wearing a full rubber strap-on face mask, and waved ultraviolet sterilizers over the flippers before his every ball.

And how did I do? ... To use our old slang, I hit for the cycle on the first four games, getting a first, second, third, and fourth. The third place hurt as it was on the game I'd picked, Whitewater, and while the sterilizer guy had an insurmountable lead by the third ball, all I needed was a couple million points to take second, and I fumbled the ball rather than make a safe shot. I'd picked Whitewater partly for historic reasons: it was one of the games they always had at The Arcade in the old days but back then I didn't know how to play it at all. (This game is either a new instance of the table, or is a heavily refitted one, as the toys on the playfield, originally Bigfoot themed, were replaced with after-market Abominable Snowman toys.)

The first place came on the Jersey Jack game Elton John, which just in case it wasn't destiny enough for me picked as my starting song ``Pinball Wizard''. Other people had to change their song to get to it. In that case I was doing all right, chopping wood, making a lot of shots that weren't exploding in points and then on my final ball the game gave me several distinct multiballs right in a row, like it didn't want me to stop playing.

The fifth and final game of the night was my choice again and I went for Creature From The Black Lagoon, partly because I don't have many chances to play it. And it turned out to be a great choice for me because I was able to try going for Super Scoring, a mode I learned recently from playing the game in simulation. Shoot the right ramp twelve times (seventeen on some games) and then the Snack Bar and there you go. Well, dear reader, I got it, on my third ball, and I could feel my quartet staring at me as this mode they'd never heard of before came up. By the time I could see the score again I had embarrassingly overwhelmed everyone else. Two firsts, a second, a third, and a fourth totals out to a slightly better-than-average night, this format. I finished a little bit above [personal profile] bunnyhugger, who had a night with no first places but more seconds.

After playing we got to talking with MWS, and some of the many people who know him and chat with him. Also with the woman on the venue's staff, who had come in to oversee the place on what was otherwise a closed night for The Arcade. (This explained the mystery of why league isn't Friday night: add the general public to the fifty or sixty people there for league and the crowd would be unmanageable.) Turns out, she's also the person who runs the furry meetups, when those are held, so we got a fresh angle to talk about as well as vinyl stickers of her snow leopard. [personal profile] bunnyhugger offered back in trade a Lansing Lightning Flippers sticker, with her Thumper Bumpers rabbit mascot, and this got talk going about whether The Arcade could get a snow leopard mascot.

It will not surprise you at all that we closed the place out; they were shutting games off as people finished them, and we would get only one last game of Twilight Zone in at the end of the night.


And now, we come to the last pictures of our Wednesday at Six Flags America, our full day at a park that's since been closed and probably will be doomed to become a plaque in front of a condo soon. What comes next in my photo roll? Do you remember?

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Looking up at Superman: Ride of Steel's lift hill (left) and return path (right) while focusing on just how dark the clouds could still make the evening sky.


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On the right is the Joker's Jinx ride, and in the distance, The Wild One, over in the Mardis Gras area.


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Noticed the gates to a stadium-seating performance venue open and I was curious how close I could get to it without being yelled at.


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Didn't actually get this close but I did use my zoom lens and see, mm, seems like the area hasn't seen heavy use or maintenance love in a while.


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Block party also didn't show much signs of having happened, but maybe it cleans up fast.


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Here's a picture creeping up on The Flying Carousel's rounding boards, my last interesting picture before leaving the park. And what could come next?


Trivia: In the months following Thomas Edison's 1891 victory in lawsuits over the light bulb patent, Edison General Electric stock dropped from $120 a share to $90. Source: Empires of Light: Edison, Tesla, Westinghouse, and the Race to Electrify the World, Jill Jonnes. Finalizing the decision took time, and Westinghouse had held onto its money well and was actually coming out of the patent fight stronger than anyone expected.

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March 2nd, 2026
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The more he sees of the works of mortals, the more Hythlodaeus is reminded of his ancient past.

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Day after Motor City Furry Con I went to [personal profile] bunnyhugger's parents to pick up our pet rabbit. [personal profile] bunnyhugger had to work; I would have had to work but it was Presidents Day so I got to sleep in instead. Our mice we left in their cage as they had water and plenty of blocks of Boring Nutrition Lumps that they could eat if they had absolutely nothing else, and they did. I didn't stay long at her parents', though, nor did I take off my N-95 since there was such an obvious high risk. We never came down with any symptoms of Covid-19, to our mild wonder considering how packed we were in the elevators, and the following Saturday visited to celebrate their birthdays.

[personal profile] bunnyhugger had briefly seen her mother on her own birthday, since that was the day before the con when she dropped our rabbit off. And her father's birthday was the next day. But this would be a chance to pause and, you know, celebrate them and once again fail to let us buy dinner. Her father has a thing about it; we were able to get the check for their 50th anniversary and that's been it.

They had a cake, a two-layer white cake with frosting a bit sweeter than [personal profile] bunnyhugger's mother really liked, to share their birthdays, though it was inscribed to her for her 80th. After we sat down and ate too many potato chips and talked a while her father got a cake knife out and sliced off a couple for himself, as he was afraid he'd be too full if he waited until after dinner. I protested --- I was just shocked --- but [personal profile] bunnyhugger pointed out it was his birthday and his birthday cake too.

So besides the cake --- and the resolve that [personal profile] bunnyhugger's mother would do no cooking --- it was a fairly usual visit with her parents, pleasant and comfortable and somehow shorter than I'd expected. I guess I'm used to staying past midnight or so. Maybe if we had gotten out one of the games; we'd found and brought our barely-begun campaign game Aftermath, as well as the rolling-dice pinball simulator, but never did find the time for them.

In part, this because [personal profile] bunnyhugger had gotten an account for her mother with Archive.org's lending library for people with sight impairment, and was showing how to borrow books and use them on her iPad. In part it's because we had so much cake. We brought leftover cake home and didn't finish for nearly a week after. (Granting we didn't eat it every day either.)

But mostly it was because we wanted to spend more time talking with them about the convention (her mother was so sympathetic about the hat loss, and also said she felt bad for what a time I must have gone through trying to comfort [personal profile] bunnyhugger, which does show how she has both our numbers), and about what they've been doing, and, you know, all that being with family.


In pictures we're closing in on the end of our full day at Six Flags America so please enjoy considering these sights:

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The Wild One running again now that the weather permits.


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Pretty sure I could sell this as a postcard if amusement parks still sold postcards of their marquee rides. ... Also if the seats were packed.


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Hey, turns out Gotham City is a swinging place! Who knew? (The silhouette is the park's Mardis Gras sign, on the other side.)


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We had the idea that Blizzard River was going to be opening later that season, which seemed amazing considering (a) that's definitely a 1980s Comics Penguin design and also (b) they've known all year that the park was closing. And yet --- well, computer, enhance.


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Yeah, their sign had 'frosting' chipped off the Z! ... Anyway turns out Blizzard River had been around since 2003, and it's a pity that it wasn't running when we visited since it was so hot we might have considered a spinning rapids ride.


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The Superman ride's lift hill as it looks with stormclouds having passed.


Trivia: In 1971, the top five university conferences together awarded fewer than fifty athletic scholarships to women compared to over five thousand to male football players. In 1980, five years after Title IX regulations required women receive the benefits of educational programs or activities, women made up 30 percent of college athletes, though women's teams still received only about 16 percent of collegiate sports budgets. Source: With Amusement for All: A History of American Popular Culture Since 1830, LeRoy Ashby.

Currently Reading: Lost Popeye Zine, Sundays Supplement Volume 20: 1958, Tom Sims, Bill Zaboly. Editor Stephanie Noelle.

March 1st, 2026
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posted by [personal profile] redbird at 08:48pm on 2026-03-01 under

We’ve been in New Orleans for a few days, enjoying warm weather and eating outdoors— cattitude in particular needed to get away from winter. Not as much interesting food as we’d hoped, but lunch today was at a lebanese restaurant, where we tried Lebanese iced tea, made with rosewater— the server apologized because she thought we had asked for it instead of ordinary sweet tea. My grilled shrimp and rice were also excellent.

Then we wandered through the French Market, and bought hats, a shoulder bag, and a smaller cros-body bag.

We rounded the afternoon off by listening to the drum circle in Congo Square, which has been weekly for more than 300 years. My brother suggested than because our hotel is across thethe street street from the park.

More when I get home ; we’re flying back tomorrow

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Closing Ceremonies. We'd missed opening ceremonies because they were inexplicably early on Friday, like 10 am or something, and there was no fursuit parade, so this was the first big everyone-at-the-convention activity we were at. This is where I finally got to know anything particular about the charity --- Wolf Creek Habitat, for the second(?) year in a row --- and that the 2,525 attendees raised a total of like $35,000. We were wrapped up enough in our own problems to have missed them, wherever they were.

With the convention officially closed we had a couple hours of unscheduled time and spent some of it in Hospitality --- [personal profile] bunnyhugger finally got some alcohol from the free bar; I missed it altogether --- and somewhere around here we picked up the rumor that depending on just when the Renaissance Center renovations start, if they start next year, then Motor City Furry Con might be forced out into some other venue, if one fits.

[personal profile] bunnyhugger used the time to take her daily half-hour walk. I went back to the video game room where they were once again playing Wreck-It Ralph on an overhead projector. They were always playing that or Tron Ares I think because it didn't look like what I kind of remember from Tron Legacy. I finally got some time in on Quick And Crash, the target-shooting game with a fun exploding mug as the final target, and I managed one time even to shoot the mug. I wasn't doing very well. I also stunned [personal profile] bunnyhugger by playing the Crazy Taxi video game --- how often do I play arcade games? --- because it was right by the pinball and it had looked like a lot of fun. It is pretty fun, yeah, have to say.

And the pinball games? Surfers was still working, doing better than it had last year, although the flippers were sorely weakened by three days of heavy use. I'm not sure it was still possible to make the candycane shot that's the real points mine. Bow And Arrow was still going strong, though, apparently unfazed by all its attention. [personal profile] bunnyhugger and I got a last couple games in just before the close of the gaming room, with [personal profile] bunnyhugger once again putting up just over 100,000 points. She was eerily consistent on the game all weekend. I was more erratic at it, but the final game, after two bad balls, discovered just what happens if you max out the bonus, which you can collect mid-ball with the right shot: you can light an extra ball, and that let me get to enough points to collect another extra ball, so I ended up coming achingly close to properly rolling the game.

[personal profile] bunnyhugger got into her Cerberus kigurumi --- while she'd had some time fursuiting Saturday it was just too much to bring the suit from the car to the Headless Lounge and back again --- and got appreciative congratulations for having chosen to wear a neat three-headed outfit. And we went to the Dead Dog Dance, taking in the last hours of a convention that wasn't really our thing. The DJ brought the songs to a stop at 10:00 and then rolled out one more song to close things out that I couldn't tell from what came before. And then the guy in charge of the AV came out and did two or possibly more songs before bringing the Dead Dog Dance, and the last event of the convention, to an end. They did not play the ChipTunes version of Toto's ``Africa'' that had finished Closing Ceremonies.

We did a last check of lost-and-found and careful examination of the path back to my car --- and to the next floor up in the parking garage, where we'd parked for a few minutes before discovering the pedestrian-overpass-level was free --- without finding [personal profile] bunnyhugger's hat. Can not recommend losing precious gifts from family members, would not do again.


Our full day at Six Flags America got interrupted by rain, most of which I didn't photograph. We just waited stuff out in the food court. But ...

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It really was raining, though, as you can see from the raindrops coming out of the trees.


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The steampunk-themed midway with a fresh coat of water. Not bad, is it?


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Here's Steamwinder, the ride we most wanted to get on in Steamtown besides the roller coaster. So, each of the big levers rotates, with the seats staying horizontal, and all four of the levers is in time so they always just miss the others, but keep looking like they are on the brink of contact. Meanwhile the whole base rotates around a vertical axis. It's a much more intense and fun and delightful ride than we expected.


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This is just the sign for Roar, which doesn't put the A in a separate color the way the logo posters in the station do.


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Did you know they had character meet-and-greets? Neither did we until it was too late.


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Here's that picture of a white polka-dotted chef alligator mascot that you were asking about.


Trivia: An Ottoman Financial calendar, or Marti calendar, was in use in Islamic border countries (like Turkey) from 1676. These years began on 1 March, and had a 29-day February in Julian leap years. Source: Mapping Time: The Calendar and its History, EG Richards.

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posted by [personal profile] sorcyress at 12:07am on 2026-03-01
I suppose I need to write my words, but what I would like to be doing is continuing my knitting project and watching Um Actually.

(Um Actually has been _great_ background television for me, lo these many moons. It's exciting when I can get something right --I was particularly proud of a recent "needs more pixels" where I actually got the right answer on first round and none of the contestants managed after several-- and it's easy to just enjoy when it's not things I particularly know.)

My vague sense for myself is "maybe I shouldn't have more than like three knitting projects on needles at the same time" which doesn't actually play well with my ADHD popping back and forth between things constantly. It feels like I should try and consistently have "something I can easily throw into a bag and work on wherever" in addition to "something I need to concentrate on in mostly one location". Finishing projects is going to remain the hardest part.

Current projects:

*A chaos scarf for my sister, because she was one of the two family members who actually honored my christmas list request of "tell me what you would like me to make you for next christmas". Mom's is more complicated, and I need to do more toruses before I'll be able to ask her for measurements, but Al very cutely was enthusiastic about my hideous nightmare chaos scarf that was the whole reason I got into this nonsense in the first place. Okay, sure, I can make you a scarf, scarves are great!

So far I have decided to make it difficult for myself in multiple different ways. But the nice thing about "make a twelve foot scarf with whatever random yarns come your way" is that I can just work on it forever.

*A book cover for my ereader. This is one hundred percent "I don't want to learn how to read patterns so I will design my own concept of fucking around". I had to frog like half of it because I didn't _quite_ have enough yarn to do the whole thing with my ancient remaining stash of candy-corn yarn, so I had to obtain a new ball in a similar colour. I'm increasingly close to actually done, but there's definitely a hard part I want to finish with that I have no idea if it's even possible to do. The candy-corn yarn is officially my "practice swatching things" yarn though, so I want it back, so eventually I'll just...do whatever nonsense I am gonna and be done with it. (do hard things badly).

*Wee tiny proof-of-concept swatch for a "I'm pretty sure this is how you do the thing" idea. It's also my first practice using my size 1 needles, which is very important practice to have if I'm going to try making socks, which I would probably like to do.

Future problems include "I dunno man, I'm just doing this because it's better for my mental health than playing shitty phone games" and "kilt hose". Cabling is obviously something I have to learn how to do at some point and goddamnit why is it only just now occuring to me that obviously I eventually need to have kilt hose with blue lines on them, what a delicious variety of nerd. Fuck. I'll write it in the file.

Anyways, that's where I'm at. Hope you are well!

~Sor
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February 28th, 2026
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I had stalled out on this one due to poor light and hating confetti stitches. Yesterday I cranked through all but 2 of the stars and much of the shading on the moon.

Pattern is Upon A Star from the book Cross Stitch In The Forest.

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posted by [personal profile] zenlizard at 11:38am on 2026-02-28 under
Mood:: 'disgusted' disgusted
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It all started when my favorite dance historian inquired if we could round up a few folks to do a zoom reading of a play she was asked to choreograph. "Castelvines y Monteses" by the Spanish playwright Lope de Vega - a ridiculously prolific Spanish contemporary of Shakespeare's, and based on the same plot as R&J.

details within )

My only regret is that some folks did not get to come out and see it. I'm ludicrously proud of this project, and it's such a unique opportunity of a text that I'm sad that most of the world's population is unaware of it.

Next up: a year stage managing and producing in a row, commencing with Oscar Wilde's Salome directed by NoLabels as a tribute to the 1990s.
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After we got to the Trash Animals panel --- despite having missed the SpinDizzy wizard --- things did start to pick up. The session had by that time broken up into a couple of groups of people talking, really just hanging out with people, some of them in raccoon fursuits, one in a rat suit, and a couple people in other suits or costumes. [personal profile] bunnyhugger brought her squirrel puppet Chitter, but ended up talking more with Ed Hyena than anyone else. I gravitated that way too.

Also there was a somewhat long kerfuffle in trying to get a photograph of all the participants. The photographer had the idea everyone should gather around a trash bin, which pushed us all out of the adequate-sized meeting room into the narrow corridor of the walkway from the hotel's center ring to the conference room, there to gather around the small trash bin that never stood a chance of dominating the scene. We'd probably have been better off moving the trash bin into the room --- we'd at least have the chance for people not to be stacked five deep across a too-narrow walkway --- but that's a lesson for next time.

The hanging out merged imperceptibly into getting ready for the next panel, Show Me Your Camera, which was just what you'd imagine from the label. Lot of neat camera gear shown off, ranging from the stuff familiar from my youth --- remember those Kodak short but fat rectangles with the tower of flash cubes plugged in? --- or early digital cameras that record on 3.5" floppies. Some was quirkier stuff, like the Argus cameras once made in Ann Arbor. There were more than one century-old camera, and more than one person with so many lenses and lens extensions it was terrifying to stand too near all this expensive glass.

[personal profile] bunnyhugger was excited for the chance to show off her cameras, collected from estate sales and thrift stores and the like. But when the panel host stopped about midway through saying they were going to just pause showing off cameras to take a group photo, she correctly forecast that the showing-off would never resume. Instead it broke up into a general chat session, and she was able to talk with individuals about their cameras and about hers but never to show the whole bunch off to anyone. Also to people testing out their gear on shots of a couple volunteer fursuiters.

We did get to see a demonstration of someone who'd got a couple portable LED spotlights --- these were actually held by hand --- wirelessly connected to his main camera so that when he snapped there would be a bright flash short enough that the eye --- my eye, anyway --- couldn't even see it. But the picture came out with the spotlight colored as per the spotlights, with a dark background, just as if he were photographing in a studio. Astounding feat of photography; he explained something to the effect of when you have the right gear, everywhere is your studio now.

Following this was a bit of time with nothing particular on the schedule. We did an orbit of the dealer's den where we didn't really spot anything all that interesting --- it felt weirdly smaller than last year's, despite the hotel being so much larger --- and also a dip into artists alley though there wasn't any chance of getting a sketchbook commission. I think [personal profile] bunnyhugger got a couple stickers, though not of what she really wanted, Animal Crossing's lovable jock Bam.

After that, we went back to Hospitality, in my case mostly to get a couple Faygos and to sit a while. We needed to recover our energy somewhere and this would do it. The next thing we had to face was, and it's hard to think it came this soon, Closing Ceremonies.


We're also coming up on the close of our full day at Six Flags America, if you can imagine.

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I mentioned in passing a Johnny Rocket's at Six Flags America. There are several reasons we didn't eat there, but one of them was that it was closed due to as the sign says, ``HVAC complications''. This sign being there implies they were getting enough questions about Johnny Rocket's that just not opening the place wouldn't have addressed.


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The Tea Cups ride had pretty ordinary decoration but it's always nice seeing one. Little odd none of the parks nearest us have one.


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That lake that's over by the carousel (seen in the background) where that squirrel appeared earlier, but here seen from where you can also tell there was a wooden suspension bridge alongside.


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Heritage House Food Court is that spot that had all the signs about the park's history and grammatical catastrophes, by the way. We spent a lot of time in here waiting out the rain.


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Oh yeah, and checking in on the clocks, well, the analog clocks are at different wrong times and Ye Olde Digital Clock is missing.


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It's coincidence that my first picture after the rain included the Cyclone (a Scrambler) but it's at least a little bit funny too.


Trivia: When Louis Blériot made the first airplane crossing of the English Channel from Calais to Dover in 1909 he was accompanied by a French destroyer, monitoring his flight and ready to rescue him should he have to ditch. Most of the flight was at an altitude of about 250 feet. Source: Atlantic: Great Sea Battles, Heroic Discoveries, Titanic Storms, and a Vast Ocean of a Million Stories, Simon Winchester.

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