Responding to a comment
fiannaharpar made to my post
about snow a couple of days ago, I managed to remind myself of a couple
of snow driving stories.
Yeah, I'm going to brag. Deal.
( Story Time )
Driving in snow can be hazardous, yes. Failing to adjust for
conditions is bound to be expensive and can be deadly. That's one
mistake the snow-idiots make (or adjusting but not adjusting
enough, such as a habitual tailgater who finally backs off to
what would've been a safe following distance on clean pavement but still
isn't enough in the snow). The opposite mistake is nearly as bad (it
can also be expensive, but it's more likely to be grossly inconvenient
than fatal): adjusting inappropriately, being too timid,
becoming an obstacle or even (inadvertently) creating traps for
other drivers.
I don't mind others' being careful -- I encourage it -- even if
they wind up being much more cautious than I am. They can compensate
for real or imagined limitations of their vehicles, tires, or reflexes
without my calling them idiots -- I may call them "in my way", but not
idiots. But when somebody moving smoothly along slowly but fast enough
to make it up a slippery hill, decides to come to a complete stop at the
base of the hill and look at it for a while, thus removing any chance of
making it to the top, well that I have a problem with. Likewise the
folks who make it impossible for me to merge safely, the ones who park
with most of the car sticking out into already too-narrow traffic lanes,
those are the idiots as much as the ones flying to and fro without any
real control of their vehicles because they don't understand that snow
is slippery.
One of the messages I got from my father loud and clear even before I
learned to drive myself was that (when driving), snow is to be neither
ignored nor feared, but respected and adjusted for.