it occurs to me that having identified but uncompleted tasks like that is what's going to let me accept help the next time it's offered instead of saying, "thanks, but I don't even know what I need you to do yet."
Ayup, that sounds a lot like me... I stubbornly refuse help because there's so much to do, it's easier to just DO (or not do) all of it than to figure out what others can help with.
But when I have a list of specific things, it gets a little bit easier to accept help.
AND, that said, now that camp is over and life is calmer here, please let me know if I can do anything. I want you to be able to get through all the day-to-day stuff so you have enough energy left to come out and visit and do the fun things you end up missing when you're too tired.
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Ayup, that sounds a lot like me... I stubbornly refuse help because there's so much to do, it's easier to just DO (or not do) all of it than to figure out what others can help with.
But when I have a list of specific things, it gets a little bit easier to accept help.
AND, that said, now that camp is over and life is calmer here, please let me know if I can do anything. I want you to be able to get through all the day-to-day stuff so you have enough energy left to come out and visit and do the fun things you end up missing when you're too tired.
*hugs*