[From fairly deep in a thread that started with the
usual (disproven) "being polite is always more effective"
claim and went on to what people deserve/should expect.]
"When you are intolerably rude to others, accept that you have
no protection from those others being intolerably rude to you.
Racism presented in courteous tones is not, and can never be,
courteous." --
zoeiona,
2009-08-14
A couple more
bits of context: 1) in the preceeding paragraph,
zoeiona
reminded, "Society's taboo against anger works very well as a
tool of control against people whose anger is justified: 'you
should not be so angry' is the response, as opposed to 'I should
not speak and behave in a racist way'." And 2), here's a
link to
the comment this was in response to.
Maugorn at live journal writes
"There is something wrong with YOU (your tone), THEREFORE-
your point is flawed".
Was poppycock. Is poppycock. Always will be poppycock.
Tone and point are two different items.