I told The Hubby (tm) before we were even married that if we ever got to go back to Europe (we both went before we even met each other), that I could never go to Germany, as he would like, because I could never go to the camps. He shrugged and said that he didn't particularly want to go to them, either. But I told him that you can't go to Germany & not see the camps. He knew exactly what I meant, and has never even tried to argue with me.
From flaviarassen