This ends up manifesting as "It's not my job to remember that my passing interest in a pretty girl doesn't give me the right to interrrupt whatever she is doing with the expectation that she will receive the interruption with gratitude. It's *her* job to explain that to me, without offending me."
Maybe she has better things to do.
Now usually, a privileged person who actually wants to understand can find someone who's willing to take on a job that's not her responsibility. But let's not dump yet more responsibilities on the shoulders of people who are already struggling.
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Maybe she has better things to do.
Now usually, a privileged person who actually wants to understand can find someone who's willing to take on a job that's not her responsibility. But let's not dump yet more responsibilities on the shoulders of people who are already struggling.