"Calling someone who says or does bigoted things 'a bigot' isn't censorious, it's descriptively accurate, like calling a bad movie "a bad movie", even if the bigot didn't intend to come off as bigoted and the movie didn't intend to come off as bad." -- Kai Chang, 2006-11-06
(no subject)
Then there's the question of whether someone who does X-like things is an X. Calling a normally non-bigoted person who says one marginally bigoted thing a bigot would be carping.
A bad movie is, tautologically, a bad movie. Someone "who says or does [any] bigoted things [at all]," without regard to the frequency or clear nature of such actions, isn't necessarily a bigot.
(no subject)
(no subject)
Charges of bigotry, racism, and the like are an area where arbitrary accusations are particularly common, so it's particularly important to look out for circular reasoning on both sides.
(no subject)
I agree with
As for intention, it matters if you might be interacting with the person. If they intended to act bigoted it's probably a waste of time trying to educate them and you probably want to focus on minimizing the damage from their actions. If they didn't intend to act bigoted, there are other options for how you might approach the situation.
If you're discussing the behavior in some other context, then their intentions don't matter.
(no subject)