Glenn, I see a lot of folks are advising you to tell your Mom that she's going to have to learn to deal with you as you are. Having done something pretty similar myself, I *STRONGLY* urge you to think about potential consequences before acting.
It sounds like your Mom is in something of a state of denial. If you rub her nose in reality, she's probably going to react badly. On the other hand, if you dance around the subject, she's probably not going to really understand what the problem is. There isn't a tidy solution to this.
Whatever you decide to do, plan for the worst and hope things don't go completely south.
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It sounds like your Mom is in something of a state of denial. If you rub her nose in reality, she's probably going to react badly. On the other hand, if you dance around the subject, she's probably not going to really understand what the problem is. There isn't a tidy solution to this.
Whatever you decide to do, plan for the worst and hope things don't go completely south.