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posted by [personal profile] eftychia at 05:24am on 2014-01-17

"Existing halfway between genders is stressful. Imagine for a moment if you woke up one morning with the wrong factory equipment. Most people can't, but Chloë Sevigny, who played a transgender assassin on 'Hit & Miss,' found wearing a prosthetic penis unbearable. 'I cried every day when they put it on,' she said in an interview. This, for a prosthetic that she knows isn't real, and comes off when the the day is over.

"When lesbian journalist Norah Vincent tried to live as a man as a social experiment, it took less than a year before the strain caused her to have herself voluntarily committed.

"When straight, healthy people try and pull off what transgender people do on a daily basis (live in the wrong gender), the strain is enough to make them suicidal too."

-- Brynn Tannehill, "Myths About Gender Confirmation Surgery", 2013-12-08

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gingicat: deep purple lilacs, some buds, some open (Default)
posted by [personal profile] gingicat at 10:26am on 2014-01-17
Wow.
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posted by [personal profile] stori_lundi at 01:41pm on 2014-01-17
When I was 5, my long blonde hair, which I loved, was cut off into a short page-boy cut because my mother was tired of taking care of it. I cried. For the next 3 years, people constantly called me a boy because I was a tomboy, wearing jeans and t-shirts. I even looked like a boy in a dress when I dressed up for church on Sunday. I *hated* it. While I didn't want to be a girly girly and wear dresses and play Barbies, I did want to be recognized as the correct gender. When I finally got big pink glasses in 3rd grade, people started calling me a girl again. This makes me especially empathetic towards transpeople because on some level, I know how it feels to be constantly called the wrong gender.
eftychia: Female (Venus) symbol, with a transistor symbol inside the circle part (TransSister)
posted by [personal profile] eftychia at 07:04am on 2014-02-03
A little firsthand experience can go a long way toward understanding ... and three years is more than a little experience. *hug*
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posted by [personal profile] jmthane at 01:43pm on 2014-01-17
I have to go to class this morning, but I will have to read this further. From what I see here, very well said on Brynn's part.

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