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posted by [personal profile] eftychia at 05:24am on 2016-05-17

"Losing people you love affects you. It is buried inside of you and becomes this big, deep hole of ache. It doesn't magically go away, even when you stop officially mourning." -- Carrie Jones

[It doesn't go away, but it does get easier to bear, stings acutely less often ... still, there have not stopped being times when I think, "Oh, Dad would find this really interesting!" or, "I should ask Dad, he'd know..." or perhaps the biggest of all, "Hey, I wish I could introduce you to my dad," and then for a while it is fresh again. Thinking today about Donald Glen Arthur Sr., b. 1931-11-04, d. 1999-05-17.]

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posted by [personal profile] selki at 04:43pm on 2016-05-17
*hugs*
twistedchick: A fragment of the night sky, edited by me (cosmos)
posted by [personal profile] twistedchick at 06:07pm on 2016-05-17
*hugs*
 
posted by [personal profile] polydad at 08:51pm on 2016-05-17
I'm imagining a conversation with me playing your Dad and you playing my Mom, with the each of us coaching the other in their 'on' role while they're 'off'.

Unfortunately, while my imagination runs on ahead of us, I envision both of *us* bursting into tears about the third line.

As the others have said, *hugs*, inadequate as internet hugs are.

best,

Joel
(*BONK* with the pool noodle!)

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