I don't know if this is something you would come up against, but 'effie' might sound too much like a shortened term for cursing.
I feel like 'that's not a shortened form i would risk' / 'that's something I would have actively avoided when I was thinkign of things to name kids' is conflicting with 'adults mostly dealing with adults who adult' and 'i think i recall people my parents were friends with with that name, maybe?' Effie sounds familiar-ish in my head in the way I associate with my childhood and adult-maybe-family around my parents.
I'm not sure that para makes sense, but I'm not sure I can explicate it otherwise... my words are only sort of working, today.
But, no. Don't feel silly. You're choosing an essential part of you, for the future. It is a reason, complete to itself, to spend time for All Due Consideration.
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I feel like 'that's not a shortened form i would risk' / 'that's something I would have actively avoided when I was thinkign of things to name kids' is conflicting with 'adults mostly dealing with adults who adult' and 'i think i recall people my parents were friends with with that name, maybe?' Effie sounds familiar-ish in my head in the way I associate with my childhood and adult-maybe-family around my parents.
I'm not sure that para makes sense, but I'm not sure I can explicate it otherwise... my words are only sort of working, today.
But, no. Don't feel silly. You're choosing an essential part of you, for the future. It is a reason, complete to itself, to spend time for All Due Consideration.