"Btw, when a person says 'Can't we accept biological reality?' in reference to trans ppl, that's a dog whistle for implying that trans ppl aren't actually who they say they are... that trans ppl's lives run up against 'reality.'" -- @timberwraith, 2018-01-13
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"God doesn't make mistakes!"
"No, and God made me trans, so trying to pretend I'm not would be denying God's design."
"You don't know the mind of God."
"Neither do you."
And now I have:
"You can't change biology!"
"Well, biologically it's likely that my being trans is a feature of my brain."
"But there's no definitive test for it."
"Nor to rule it out."
(Thanks for the link. I think I saw the headline a while back but lost the link in a browser crash before I got to read it. Opening it now...)
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• Biology is biology, but the ways we interpret biological features and group some of them into a category we call sex, and class collections of traits into 'male' and 'female' ... all the "how we think about the biology" parts are socially constructed.
• Biological sex isn't binary, and it's not just one thing.
• Except for athletes, trans people, and a few people who present interesting medical symptoms, we don't even check most of the attributes that make up biological sex. We check the most obvious one at birth and if that looks like one of the expected forms we assume that if any of the other aspects don't match that one it either won't matter or will show up eventually and be addressed later. And,
• Biological sex isn't even what matters, outside of reproduction and a small subset of medical diagnoses/treatments -- and elite athletics -- we just guess folks biological sex when we meet them. It only ever seems to come up when somebody can't guess because of conflicting signals, or is told that their guess was wrong.
Distilling these and assembling them into an answer short enough for the folks who say "but biology..." to listen to, is an ongoing project.
I think part of the problem is that "sex" isn't one thing, and we use the word as though it always refers to the same thing in different contexts. Biological sex (do they produce big gametes or small, motile gametes, or no gametes at all[*]), medical sex (several attributes that may or may not point in the same direction, and each of which may or may not be relevant depending on what problems a doctor is trying to solve), legal sex (which for some individuals can be different when visiting another state or country, or can vary depending on which agencies they're interacting with), ... and, then, of course, gender (gender identity, gender rôle, gender presentation, perceived gender...). And much of the time, the folks who bring up biological sex are really saying, "I don't want to acknowledge that person's gender so I'll change the subject and talk about sex as my excuse."
Also: Thank you for challenging this when it comes up, and trying to figure out better ways to do so.
[*] That'd cover the bases for humans, but "biological sex" gets broader when you look beyond the mammals. The big-gamete/small-gamete assignment of female/male applies in sexually-reproducing animals or plants with two sexes whose gametes differ in that particular way, but there are (IIRC, and I'll probably forget a few) species that reproduce sexually but don't do the large-gamete/small-gamete thing, species that have many sexes that can each produce offspring with any of the other sexes, species that have several sexes but a sort of hierarchy of which sex can fertilize which other sex. I think when most folks say "biological sex", they really mean medical sex.
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reads and takes notes
And, blush you're welcome. I want us to live in a society where people aren't attacked and oppressed for existing.
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The variety of biologically real species which change sex is quite interesting.
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