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posted by [personal profile] eftychia at 05:24am on 2019-04-11

"Legalized discrimination isn't just bad for the LGBT community; it's bad for anyone who just wants to use the restroom, go to work or live their life free of harassment. Laws like HB 1523 are a slippery slope to legalizing prejudice against just about anyone: women, children and even those who served in the military.

"When you make it easier to discriminate against one group, you make it easier to discriminate against everyone."

-- Nico Lang, "Think 'bathroom bills' and other anti-LGBT legislation don't impact you? Think again", Los Angeles Times, 2016-04-29 [thanks to Karen O'Donoghue for sharing this on FB]

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corylea: A woman gazing at the sky (Default)
posted by [personal profile] corylea at 12:54pm on 2019-04-11
This was brought home to me on Monday.

As you know, I'm as tall as the average man, and my hair is only just beginning to grow back after chemotherapy, so I look like I have a crew cut. My left breast is gone, and while eventually I plan to wear a bra with a prosthesis in it so as not to make other people uncomfortable, right now I'm still breastless on that side.

I was at the doctor's for yet another medical procedure and was just about to open the door to the ladies' room when a nearby man said, "That's the LADIES' room!" I said, "I'm a woman," and went on in.
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posted by [personal profile] dewline at 01:42pm on 2019-04-11
I wish you freedom from cruelty.
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posted by [personal profile] corylea at 01:47pm on 2019-04-11
That's kind of you, but I don't think the guy was trying to be mean; I think he was trying to save me from an embarrassing mistake, kind of in a "Psst! Buddy, that's the ladies' room" kind of way.

Or maybe I'm just an optimist. :-)
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posted by [personal profile] minoanmiss at 07:13pm on 2019-04-11
OH FFS DUDE.

May I have the presence of mind to tell such a gatekeeper off if they go after anyone in my presence.
corylea: A woman gazing at the sky (Default)
posted by [personal profile] corylea at 02:40pm on 2019-04-12
I don't think the guy was trying to be mean; I think he was trying to save me from an embarrassing mistake, kind of in a "Psst! Buddy, that's the ladies' room" kind of way.

Or maybe I'm just an optimist. :-)
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posted by [personal profile] dewline at 01:41pm on 2019-04-11
Nico Lang has named the long-term goal of the Trumpists...and the rest of the new fascist international.
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posted by [personal profile] minoanmiss at 07:13pm on 2019-04-11
Truth.

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