From David R. MacIver (DRMacIver), 2019-09-15, an insight:
"I'm not good at this, it's just that most people are bad at this" is what being good at things feels like from the inside, [...]
and a very Dunning-Kreuger-effect conclusion:
[...] but I really do think this is something that most people could easily be better at if they actually thought about it and cared about the outcome.