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posted by [personal profile] eftychia at 05:24am on 2020-05-25

"I get the strong desire to return to normal life now. I, too, want so badly to go out and do something fun & normal.

"But every spiritual tradition teaches about mastering desire for a reason. What you want & what you need-or others need of you-aren't always the same thing.

"Often it's about working to be more aligned with divine service, or towards alleviating suffering.

"Now, it is both of those things, but in the highest-stakes, most literal way: if you give in to your desire to pretend we are in a post-COVID world, people will die.

"Our desires are natural and understandable. We can have compassion for them. We can be empathetic to the parts of us that feel like, my goodness, these last few months have been long and hard and maybe lonely and exhausting and we Just. Want. Some. Respite.

[...]

"But the stakes are too high to let that part be in the driver's seat now.

[...]

"Rightwing slogan notwithstanding, this disease really doesn't care about your feelings.

"And a rush to return to 'normal' (either because your state is reopening some or just because it's summer now and you wanna) is going to be a death sentence for a lot of people. [..]"

-- Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg, 2020-05-26. I engourage everyone to go read the whole thing on Facebook or on Twitter, because it's the kind of writing where "just quoting the important bits" would mean taking almost the entire thing. There are additional important bits I left behind. Go look.

Oh, and I wish y'all a meaningful Memorial Day.

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posted by (anonymous) at 03:44pm on 2020-05-25
"... meaningful Memorial Day" ?
A 'morning' Memorial Day would be much more correct.

Morn for those who are in the cemetery who died in "military" service. Or were actually killed by "leaders", of "both sides", who made terrible choices.

    Morn for those who were killed but weren't part of any military.
        a.k.a. "collateral damage."

      Morn for those who lost a father, son, brother or other family member because of egotistical, self-important "leaders" who have no goodness, nor empathy for "the other," however those "others" are defined.

Is it a good day for a race and drinking too much?
  How about a parade? Look at all the shiny uniforms!

Celebrate? Not now, not ever!


MORN!

eftychia: Photo of clouds shaped like an eye and arched eyebrow (sky-eye)
posted by [personal profile] eftychia at 04:13pm on 2020-05-25
(ITYM 'mourn') Yeah, that's actually exactly why I wished folks a meaningful day, not "happy Memorial Day" -- I don't want to presume to dictate what people should feel, but at the same time, "happy day of remembering all the people who died in / because of wars" seemed jarring. It seemed a little like wishing people a happy Good Friday, or a happy Tisha b'Av, when thinking about the actual meaning of the holiday -- even though many people do treat it as a day of festivity and celebration. I hope that everybody observing this holiday finds the meaning in it that they need to, whether it matches mine or not.

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