The cat, who doesn't have a name yet, has mellowed a bit. Still tends to follow me around, but less urgently. Seems disinclined to sleep unless I'm sitting still nearby, but did eat without my being in the room. I picked up some kitty litter and some food Wednesday night. Keeping her out of the bedrooms is a challenge (and keeping the door to the blue room closed screws up my attempt to keep other parts of the house cool), but so far things are mostly okay.
The part that's most not-okay is my breathing. I've lived with cats before, and have mostly just had to keep them out of my bedroom. But either I've become more sensitive or I can't cope with the combination of humid weather, pollen, and cat. Nothing dangerous yet, but uncomfortable. That might be the show-stopper.
(BTW, I haven't managed a definite identification of the cat's sex yet -- there's a whole lot of fur in that area, and she hasn't been cooperative in letting me get a look. So if I change pronouns in a few days, you'll know why. Her coat is interesting ... slightly longish shorthair on the top and sides, but the belly and tail of a shortish longhair. Confusing, but pretty. Now if I could get the last of the little green Velcro-burrs (if not the species that inspired the invention of Velcro, then something close) out of the fur....)
Haven't gotten up to the SPCA to find out whether there's a chip yet. A little nervous about leaving her along in the house all weekend while I'm in Virginia, while the situation is still so new. She has shown no interest in going back outside, though I can lead her out there if needed. I'm tempted to attach a note to her collar saying, "Is this cat currently being cared for elsewhere?" and kicking her outside for an evening or two to see whether an answer comes back on her collar the next day.
I'm behind on replying to comments again, and unlikely to catch up before sometime next week, but here are a few bits... Lap versus desk: accepts that suggestion for about thirty seconds, then wants to be where my hands are again; but seems to have decided that once she gets sleepy enough (which takes a while), stretching out at my feet is acceptable. Now I just have to make sure I don't run over her tail with the chair. Claws: something about the way she kneads did suggest "taken from mother too early" to me. Still attempting to teach that claws+skin=bad, but I'm not sure she's even aware she's using her claws. Doesn't seem to be dim; I think it's something specific about the kneading behaviour. Not very interested in playing; only seems to want company (and to be petted). Certainly not naming her until/unless I know I'm definitely keeping her (but tempted to use a variation of the name of the person whose phone bills I keep getting despite having written "never heard of this person -- return to sender" on the bills and collection-notices).
I wish I could have her curl up on the bed next to me when I sleep. But that would be a bad idea.
Allergies
I haven't seen any literature about dander allergies for declining a specific animal after exposure; I'd be interested to know if it's been tested.
Cat Herding
Citrus.
Cats hate citrus fruit - the smell of it makes them flee. Don't believe me? cut a lime in half and show it to your cat - didn't know she could make that face, did you?
Fortunately, there are any number of citrus based air freshening sprays at healthful store, or hey, even Trader Joes.
Remember: scolding is throwing downthe gauntlet. But Stink is stink!
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Are you allergic to catnip at all? If no, I have an assortment of toys, some involving catnip, that Willow refuses to acknowledge. She has apparently decided that she is a grande dame, and is more concerned with having bitchy-fits at Rex than with playing in a generally silly way. (Probably because Rex gets jealous and tries to jump on anybody I play with.)
If your adopter is able to stay with you, you'll probably need acceptable scratching outlets for her, as well. Our Siamese vastly prefered the back deck for this purpose, and had a simply lovely time scratching on the railings. In other words, raw, untreated pine, a 2x4 or 2x6 of, oh, 2' may be in order ... and I probably have something in my garage.
And one alternative to allergic reactions is... shave the cat. o.o If she's not going outside, it shouldn't be a problem, and if 90% of her body is covered with only buzzed fuzz, it might reduce the allergic reaction. I don't know much about minimizing allergens from cats, though, I can never remember. :) One of the barn cats is shaved every summer, and while he's pissy and standoffish for the first week, once you've convinced him that he's the most stunningly handsome cat you've ever met, he's very sweet.
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By the way... I'm sure we have some carpet, if you'd like to create a scratchign surface for her... I saved the bedroom carpet when we pulled it up for expressly that purpose... ;) We've only used about six feet of it so far, still got a chunk of leftovers. ;)
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...keeping the door to the blue room closed screws up my attempt to keep other parts of the house cool
Keep an eye out for someone getting rid of a porch-type screen door. You could mount it to open the other way from the bedroom door, and close it instead of the solid door.
Still attempting to teach that claws+skin=bad, but I'm not sure she's even aware she's using her claws.
Make a startled, distressed little squeak, and jolt yourself a tiny bit, then going very still. If she's ever had littermates to play with (and bite/scratch too hard), she'll know that cat-talk for "ow! stop!".
Keep us posted!
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(Says Kate, unhelpfully.)
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I like the note on the collar idea. Seems worth a shot, as long as it's weatherproofed somehow, and not too big...
I also wonder if her early eating habits were less eating fast because she hadn't had any in a while, and more eating fast before a bigger cat comes along and eats it first... but that's just idle speculation.
I'm mildly allergic as well... not much advice in that department other than regular brushing and perhaps a bath (thick gloves help... and/or an extra pair of hands. ;)
In other news, Hi! We've shared comment space in multiple journals, but I only recently got around to adding you.
~j
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Best of luck getting acclimated! I remember how much you liked other cats.