The second of your states, which you label "Problem", is what I mean when I capitalize "Right" -- the complete inability to let go of a position for fear of being shown to be inadequate in some way. And this ALWAYS stands in the way of being happy.
As you say, it's a common human failing. But that doesn't make it, um, let's say, correct ;-)
I try hard not to do it anymore, either -- but doubtless do, altogether too often. If you catch me at it, please smack with the (hopefully virtual) Ugly Haddock or equivalent. Thanks
Re: Tense
As you say, it's a common human failing. But that doesn't make it, um, let's say, correct ;-)
I try hard not to do it anymore, either -- but doubtless do, altogether too often. If you catch me at it, please smack with the (hopefully virtual) Ugly Haddock or equivalent. Thanks