Don't worry about replying to me individually unless you want to take me up on an offer. I mean, I'd love to hear from you, but I can read your updates on LJ, and I'm not tapping my foot impatiently or anything like that. It's not like you disappeared for weeks! I don't see a need for you to be hard on yourself. If I see you at the party, I'm fine with a hug and not talking.
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