Δαφνη Ευτυχια Αρθουρος

"As a writer, I've interviewed many men on the topic of sexual attraction, and they aren't as critical of women as we are of ourselves. Most have told me that a woman's attitude about her body is the most important thing. If she gets out of bed after making love and can't move without covering everything up, or talks endlessly about the stretch marks on her breasts, a man will notice. But if she walks around like a goddess, communicating "Hey, this is it, and I'm comfortable with it," a man doesn't notice the extra weight. He's too busy thinking, This is fun!" -- excerpted from "My Life Didn't End After Divorce" by Sheila Ellison

(Text and attribution swiped wholesale from a Usenet post by Bladerunner.)