A footnote to your footnote: "so what?" can also be a really inept way of saying "I'm poly, so that's not an issue for me". A clueful person would say something like "If that means you're monogamous, cool. If not, the offer remains open if it's cool with your spouse."
However, the way I work, if I got to the point of propositioning someone, I'd know them well enough to know whether they were partnered, and they'd know that I'm poly. Again, this isn't better/worse than other ways of getting into relationships, it's the one that works for me.
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However, the way I work, if I got to the point of propositioning someone, I'd know them well enough to know whether they were partnered, and they'd know that I'm poly. Again, this isn't better/worse than other ways of getting into relationships, it's the one that works for me.