I also tend to think that one should not be "out there" with their chosen lifestyle, just from the stand point that usually it's just plain rude to do so. I tend to find PDA that extends to the point that it gives away one's lifestyle choice a bit of a squick.
I find heavy make-out sessions in public (wavy-hands definition of "public") to be in poor taste, but not necessarily *rude* (depends on context ... wilful disregard of others' feelings?). But I don't expect others to hide their preferences from me, and actually that would give the majority even more reason to assume they're way more in the majority than they actually are (no pesky counter-examples in their daily lives). I usually rejoice to see minority (same-sex, multi-racial, multi-partnered, whatever) people being openly, um, preferential.
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I find heavy make-out sessions in public (wavy-hands definition of "public") to be in poor taste, but not necessarily *rude* (depends on context ... wilful disregard of others' feelings?). But I don't expect others to hide their preferences from me, and actually that would give the majority even more reason to assume they're way more in the majority than they actually are (no pesky counter-examples in their daily lives). I usually rejoice to see minority (same-sex, multi-racial, multi-partnered, whatever) people being openly, um, preferential.