Perrine has a good daddy/mommy. I'm sure that she's going to be fine, and I hope someday I get to meet her! I love my cats, too. Both of them were already "fixed" before I aquired them, so I didn't have to go through that trauma or the drama. I initially had one cat, when I was a child. That cat's death was the big trauma of my young life. When I was 17, another cat came into my life - an adult female, already spayed. Then another cat came along, and we spayed her and had her claws removed (this was twenty five years ago before I knew that it could be bad emotionally for the cat). Eventually I had a cycle where one cat would pass away, and soon another would show up. My ex Dan said "The union sent them". I've never had more than two cats at a time, but the new ones keep on showing up right on schedule.
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