Not all of them. My husband has gone depressed and anhedonic. When we do manage to get our interest timed right, his performance is great. I've stopped asking, because I got tired of nagging, just to get laid by my huband. He stopped asking, and refused to tell when when I asked him why. Refuses counseling. I think he was almost relieved to have me distracted a bit. I complain, but I love him dearly, deeply,truly, and completely. I just don't like some of the things he does.
We mostly get along well, but bicker a lot about stupid things sometimes. I don't get to see my Dearlove very often anyway. He's great, too, in a differnt way.) The've aso been acquaintances for longer than my husband's known me.
I asked permission to begin the extra relationship. relationship. He could've cut it off right there. It would take a lot to end it now. But I could remain friends if it got to be a problem. My feelings, however, probably would stay the same.
Poly is a complicated thing, but it's good for the right combination of people.
I worry about your Best Beloved almost as muchas I worry about your DearLove but for very different reasons.
I'm quite troubled by BB's withdrawal. He strikes me as an individual who is succumbing more and more to some past pain, one which is unknown and unaddressed in his conscious mind. I don't get the feeling that he's going to address it any time soon, either.
I agree that poly is both difficult and right for some people. I certainly spend enough time pondering it myself. More than this I don't want to say here in 'open court.' *Hugs*
Poor Sexual Perfornce
We mostly get along well, but bicker a lot about stupid things sometimes. I don't get to see my Dearlove very often anyway. He's great, too, in a differnt way.) The've aso been acquaintances for longer than my husband's known me.
I asked permission to begin the extra relationship. relationship. He could've cut it off right there. It would take a lot to end it now. But I could remain friends if it got to be a problem. My feelings, however, probably would stay the same.
Poly is a complicated thing, but it's good for the right combination of people.
Re: Poor Sexual Performance
I'm quite troubled by BB's withdrawal. He strikes me as an individual who is succumbing more and more to some past pain, one which is unknown and unaddressed in his conscious mind. I don't get the feeling that he's going to address it any time soon, either.
I agree that poly is both difficult and right for some people. I certainly spend enough time pondering it myself.
More than this I don't want to say here in 'open court.'
*Hugs*