Okay. I didn't get to 1st grade 'til I was nigh 7, because the stupid system said that if I wasn't 5 by December 1st, I couldn't start kindergarten for another year. They paid for that.
I agree that memories of learning to read are hazy. That's why I asked people who were grownups when I was a kidlet. They are admittedly fond elders, but since I don't remember it, I just have to trust them.
I knew I was supposed to read by 5. Not letting a child read when she's ready should be a felony. So should pressuring her to. I wasn't pressured, but knew what was wanted, and didn't want to do it. I knew when I had a good deal.
Pretty sure I cut my eyeteeth on Dr. Seuss and Little Golden Books. I still have the poetry one. Not newspapers except the funnies page. And as I said, I didn't want to be seen reading. But upside down? Oh, my. They must've still been in the strings of shapes phase. Their ambition is admirable, though.
And no, Dearlove, the hardcore readers of your journal cannot be considered an average sort of sample. We're a fair assortment of freaks, though. In the best sense of the word. Would you like us to be normal? (shudder) ;-)
"Not letting a child read when she's ready should be a felony. So should pressuring her to."
One of the cool features of Montessori is that each child learns at his or her own pace. And somehow everyone seems to get around to everything.
"the hardcore readers of your journal cannot be considered an average sort of sample"
Yeah, but since y'all are representative of the kinds of people I associate with in general, it's easy to forget that you're not representative of the gen.pop. once in a while even though I know better. (I made the same mistake when rating my own skills in high school -- I was comparing myself to my classmates because that was my only frame of reference, and they too were a skewed sample.)
(I made the same mistake when rating my own skills in high school -- I was comparing myself to my classmates because that was my only frame of reference, and they too were a skewed sample.)
This is similar in some ways to what happened to me in grade school. I grew up fairly far out in the country [northeastern MD] and from K-7th went to what I would term a "non-denominational private school" [i.e., non-religious, though many of the kids did go on to Catholic high schools for religious and/or educational reasons]. My parents selected it initially because when I was 5 Maryland did not yet have public kindergarten.
So, since my 24 grademates were almost my only frame of reference as far as childhood intelligence went, I mostly compared myself to them... as in, I thought I was dead average, in a school with a lot of slightly slower kids.
Thus it was a bit of a shock when I got an offer from my parents to get the heck out of there [I spent most of 5th-7th grades begging to go anywhere else because of issues with a particular classmate]: if I could do a year's worth of algebra over the summer, I could skip 8th grade and go to the big public high school -- where with 762 other people in my graduating class, as opposed to 24, there had to be somewhere for me to fit in, someone for me to be friends with.
Silly, naive, oblivious me, thinking everyone could do stuff like that... :)
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I agree that memories of learning to read are hazy. That's why I asked people who were grownups when I was a kidlet. They are admittedly fond elders, but since I don't remember it, I just have to trust them.
I knew I was supposed to read by 5. Not letting a child read when she's ready should be a felony. So should pressuring her to. I wasn't pressured, but knew what was wanted, and didn't want to do it. I knew when I had a good deal.
Pretty sure I cut my eyeteeth on Dr. Seuss and Little Golden Books. I still have the poetry one. Not newspapers except the funnies page. And as I said, I didn't want to be seen reading. But upside down? Oh, my. They must've still been in the strings of shapes phase. Their ambition is admirable, though.
And no, Dearlove, the hardcore readers of your journal cannot be considered an average sort of sample. We're a fair assortment of freaks, though. In the best sense of the word. Would you like us to be normal? (shudder) ;-)
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One of the cool features of Montessori is that each child learns at his or her own pace. And somehow everyone seems to get around to everything.
"the hardcore readers of your journal cannot be considered an average sort of sample"
Yeah, but since y'all are representative of the kinds of people I associate with in general, it's easy to forget that you're not representative of the gen.pop. once in a while even though I know better. (I made the same mistake when rating my own skills in high school -- I was comparing myself to my classmates because that was my only frame of reference, and they too were a skewed sample.)
Definitely not asking for normal.
Whatever we are, seems normal to us, right?
This is similar in some ways to what happened to me in grade school. I grew up fairly far out in the country [northeastern MD] and from K-7th went to what I would term a "non-denominational private school" [i.e., non-religious, though many of the kids did go on to Catholic high schools for religious and/or educational reasons]. My parents selected it initially because when I was 5 Maryland did not yet have public kindergarten.
So, since my 24 grademates were almost my only frame of reference as far as childhood intelligence went, I mostly compared myself to them... as in, I thought I was dead average, in a school with a lot of slightly slower kids.
Thus it was a bit of a shock when I got an offer from my parents to get the heck out of there [I spent most of 5th-7th grades begging to go anywhere else because of issues with a particular classmate]: if I could do a year's worth of algebra over the summer, I could skip 8th grade and go to the big public high school -- where with 762 other people in my graduating class, as opposed to 24, there had to be somewhere for me to fit in, someone for me to be friends with.
Silly, naive, oblivious me, thinking everyone could do stuff like that... :)