I have both regrets about decisions I made (but then, other good things wouldn't have happened as a result of the decisions I made), and longing for seeing what would have happened if, say, I had picked Bob instead of Jack. I think it means you're better adjusted than most of us.
Ugol's Law which was, I think, promulagated on the pre-porn-spam Usenet newsgroup alt.sex.bondage: If you ever ask "am I the only one who has this kink?" the answer is invariably "no". It's been somewhat generisized to If you ever ask "am I the only one who?", the answer is invariably "no".
As for me—yeah, I wouldn't mind a do-over, if it meant that I were diagnosed at the beginning of my life with chronic depression and ADD. It would have saved me a lot of misery.
... or just some guardian angel to come talk to me, and tell me "There's a problem in your brain chemistry that's causing you to do and feel these things. Hang on, in a few years they'll invent drugs that will help with that."
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Ugol?
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As for me—yeah, I wouldn't mind a do-over, if it meant that I were diagnosed at the beginning of my life with chronic depression and ADD. It would have saved me a lot of misery.
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