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posted by [personal profile] eftychia at 05:25am on 2005-03-23

"The Terri Shiavo media frenzy should have its feeding tube removed. This is a private tragedy that has become a public dog and pony show, and that's the greatest loss of dignity for this woman." -- [livejournal.com profile] zoethe, 2005-03-22

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posted by [identity profile] sjo.livejournal.com at 02:35pm on 2005-03-23
Why is it that so few dog and pony shows actually include either dogs or ponies? I'd like them so much better if they did.
 
posted by [identity profile] rendancer.livejournal.com at 10:25pm on 2005-03-23
I couldn't agree more. What bothers me about it is the husband. I think he is being mean and callus and he's had ulterior motives the whole time. Even if there's no one home within Terry, her parents want her. That's what should matter. Her parents want the "burden" of taking care of her and trying methods of rehabilitation. Why doesn't he divorce her?...he has moved on obviously if he has kids and screwing another woman. Why I ask...because he wants whatever money or benefits he'll get from her when she finally dies. It's cruel and unusual punishment. Let her parents think someone's in there. I'd want all of you to root for me if I was in Terry's place and you thought someone was in there. God save her from this wretched existence that is denying her body and spirit the love her parents wish give her, the sustenance she needs to survive....those things her husband so adamantly denies her. At this point I'm inclined to say let her go so we don't give the husband anymore attention. But Terry does deserve the attention.
 
posted by [identity profile] realinterrobang.livejournal.com at 12:45am on 2005-03-24
From the transcripts I've read, her parents even said that they'd go so far as to allow portions of her body to be amputated in the event that she contracted gangrene from bedsores and things, and Michael, who spent the first three or four years of this ordeal trying heroically to find something, anything that would bring Terri out of it, decided that he wasn't simply going to turn Terri over to her parents and let them do things like that to her. His ulterior motive is that he's actually not in denial about Terri's condition. She's been dead for 15 years, which is what he believes, and is what is obvious from looking at the evidence. I direct you to http://abstractappeal.com/schiavo/infopage.html for more information.

The attention-seekers in this case are not Terri and Michael Schiavo; they're Bob and Mary Schindler, who are apparently so control-freaky and such fundamentalist whack-jobs they haven't been able to let go, even though it's been over a decade. The way it seems to me is that Terri was so out of control of everything in her life, all of her life, because her parents were so determined to run it for her, that she developed the eating disorder that killed her simply out of wanting an illusion of control.

You can pretty much tell that someone's in the wrong when (that nutjob) Randall Terry and Jeb Bush are on their side, and the Schindlers come down on exactly that side of the equation. I'm just hoping that Terri's body doesn't die tomorrow, or else we'll never hear the end of the ecstatic squealing from the religious lunatic fringe.

For people who are so concerned about the "sanctity of marriage" on other fronts, they're awfully quick to interfere with the husband-wife privilege when it serves their ends. Then again, this case isn't actually about due process, right-to-die statutes, euthanasia, or any of those things. It's about the state establishing a form of Eminent Domain over the (specifically female) human body. Once the state can tell you and/or your doctors that you must have a certain medical procedure (ie. being intubated and having your life artificially prolonged, such as that life is with 70% of your brain gone and being unable to swallow and all), it's not that much further to mandate that you must not have a medical procedure of which the state doesn't approve, and there goes Roe v. Wade, by the back door.
 
posted by [identity profile] blumindy.livejournal.com at 12:46pm on 2005-03-24
Beautifully said and *very* astute.

The United States' legislative branch seems to have decided that the Constitution and Bill of Rights are suggestions. And I don't think Bush ever cared about them except when he could use them toward his own ends, despite having taken oaths swearing to uphold all of it and not just parts he likes.
 
posted by [identity profile] still-asking.livejournal.com at 02:27am on 2005-03-24
I'm not certain, but I don't think he can divorce her - she'd have to be mentally competent for the trial in order to be divorced, wouldn't she?
 
posted by [identity profile] sjo.livejournal.com at 05:31pm on 2005-03-24
Actually he could divorce her on the grounds of her no longer being mentally competent, or something of that sort. However he hasn't. I respect that, and I pity him all the negative attention he's received. As far as I can tell, he only didn't divorce her so he could keep her from being under the care of her parents... who, as [livejournal.com profile] realinterrobang pointed out, as such control freaks that they can't let go, and probably that control freakishness is what drove her to eating disorders to begin with... AIEEE!
 
posted by [identity profile] rendancer.livejournal.com at 12:43am on 2005-03-26
I wish I had never commented...this gets me soo upset.

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