I hate to feed the trolls and the ACs, but if it's bad enough, no, you can't control your behaviour. When I have a really bad fluctuation, I know damn well I'm being bitchy, aggressive, depressive, and picking fights, and there isn't a bloody thing I can do about it at the time, except apologise later. With all the disincentives there are for females to act that way, you'd think, that were people really 100% "trained into" their behaviour, I wouldn't do that, but I do anyway. It's satisfying at the time, until the explosions start.
You can (and I mean everyone, not just you all personal style) be bitchy, aggressive, depressive - all that stuff, but there is a line. If you stab someone in the eye with a fork, you've crossed. I mean, you still know where right and wrong is. If you don't you ought to be chained up somewhere.
And that (I hate to say this word but it sorta fits) "moodiness" isn't specific to any given gender.
(By trained, I mean you're given a set of values to work with, and modify them to fit your agendas....)
Phhftt.
Dagnabbit! Most. Frustrating. Problem. Ever.
Re: Phhftt.
You can (and I mean everyone, not just you all personal style) be bitchy, aggressive, depressive - all that stuff, but there is a line. If you stab someone in the eye with a fork, you've crossed. I mean, you still know where right and wrong is. If you don't you ought to be chained up somewhere.
And that (I hate to say this word but it sorta fits) "moodiness" isn't specific to any given gender.
(By trained, I mean you're given a set of values to work with, and modify them to fit your agendas....)