"[...]
"The definition of feminism does not ask for two forms of
photo ID. It does not care what you look like. It does not care
what color skin you have, or whether that skin is clear, or how
much you weigh, or what you do with your hair. You can bite your
nails, or you can get them done once a week. You can spend two
hours on your makeup, or five minutes, or the time it takes to
find a Chapstick without any lint sticking to it. You can rock a
cord mini, or khakis, or a sari, and you can layer all three. The
definition of feminism does not include a mandatory leg-hair
check; wax on, wax off, whatever you want. If you believe in,
support, look fondly on, hope for, and/or work towards equality
of the sexes, you are a feminist.
"Yes, you are.
[...]
"It has nothing to do with your sexual preference or your
sense of humor or your fashion sense or your charitable
donations, or what pronouns you use in official correspondence,
or whether you think Andrea Dworkin is full of crap, or how often
you read Bust or Ms. -- or, actually, whether you've got a
vagina. In the end, it's not about that. It is about political,
economic, and social equality of the sexes, and it is about
claiming that definition on its own terms, instead of qualifying
it because you don't want anyone to think that you don't shave
your pits. It is about saying that you are a feminist and just
letting the statement sit there, instead of feeling a compulsion
to modify it immediately with 'but not, you know, that kind of
feminist' because you don't want to come off all Angry Girl.
[...]"
-- Sarah D. Bunting,
"Yes, You Are" [go read the whole thing; it's worth it -- DGA],
Tomato Nation, 2003-09-30