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Whoops -- I meant to reply to this when you wrote it, but I got sidetracked and forgot until now. Argh.

I'm not picky about pronouns; pretty much anything but 'it' is okay. What preference I do have is that I like being called 'she', and even find it rather flattering (if a bit startling when I'm not expecting it), but given the male components of my jumbled "gender performance" I'm aware that 'she' does not come at all naturally to many people with regard to me (it's probably a lot easier for the folks who only know me online than for the ones who've known me a long time in meatspace) and it sometimes confuses third parties hearing me referred to as 'she', so it's not a big deal when people refer to me as 'he'. (If I ever shave the beard and attempt a less ambiguous gender presentation, that'll change too.)

So if you want to get in the habit of referring to me as 'she', I would be honoured, but it's not something to worry about forgetting or slipping up on.

'Sie' (or 'ze') is fine too; it feels more correct to me than 'he', and probably feels more correct than 'she' to a lot of people who know me face-to-face. It's certainly less confusing, at least to people used to hearing 'sie/hir/ze/ey'/etc. already. I've got absolutely no problem with 'sie'. I just like 'she' a bit better. :-)

I'm not fond of 'ey' or 'e', but I won't object to someone who routinely uses that as hir gender-neutral construction using it to refer to me. I'm not going to dictate which gender-neutral neologisms people use; better to support them for using gender-neutral pronouns at all than to get into a game of "call this person 'ey' but call that person 'sie'".