Finally awake again. Interrupting editing my con report
for a A long overdue cat update ...
The cat has a name now: Perrine. The name was suggested
by
anniemal, who got it from a 1930s children's
story. She does react to it, but I'm not sure whether she's
figured out that it's her name yet. The sound, especially if
I pronounce it with French 'R's, is kind of close to the other
word she consistently reacts to, which is sort of a "qrrroooo?"
sound that isn't easily transliterated into English (and as far
as I can tell, is Cat for "Are you coming?").
When I'm lying in bed in the bedroom she's allowed in, she's
taken to crossing my body in one direction by walking across me
(possibly stopping on my chest for a minute or three to be
petted), and crossing the other direction with a high, arching
leap that's about four times as high as it needs to be, but is
a beautiful, graceful, dance-like move. She's also finally gotten
interested in the really fluffy toy mouse that she ignored for
the first couple of weeks it was here. She's torn small bits
off of it, and she enjoys worrying it for short periods with
teeth and claws, but doesn't throw it around or bat it around
much.
Falling asleep at ConCertino, I found I missed having Perrine
curled up against an outstretched arm.
I think I've figured out something about her behaviour in
the kitchen. She doesn't just want food -- or even particularly
"the good food" -- when she leads/follows me downstairs, she wants
to be fed. So the presence of food in her bowl already
isn't an issue; there's some level of ritual involved. Since
she looks pretty well cat-shaped now, I think I'm going to start
keeping less food in her bowl except when I go away for a weekend.
(I was making sure she had all the food she could eat because she
was so underweight. Now I want to ask a vet what a healthy
weight range for her is, but to my untrained eye, she looks
about the right proportions.)
Back on the 15th I mentioned that Perrine was upset about
the presence of Anniemal's poodle. By the time they went home,
the beginnings of an uneasy truce had formed. Poodle would
approach, curious and wanting to be friendly (or looking for
something else entirely and not noticing how close he'd gotten
to Perrine), and Perrine would wait as long as she dared before
reacting. Eventually her reaction changed from hissing with
ears all the way back, to hissing with ears sideways, to just
glaring while trembling a little but with her ears forward.
The poodle did understand and respond to the glare by backing
away, and he understood that he couldn't get through a hallway
until she moved out of the way to let him pass. I saw them get
within nine inches, nose to nose, at one point without her
hissing, and occasionally she'd actually look at something
other than him while he was nearby. Towards the end of the
visit I got the impression that she was more worried about
getting stepped on by him than anything he might do intentionally,
but she was still visibly less tense when the poodle was gone.
I showed 8x10 photos of Perrine at ConCertino -- these are
the same shots that the scans I posted are from, but I'm not
so good with the scanning thing yet, and the prints look better.
Suitable oohs and aahs ensued.
She hasn't caught any more mice yet, though she's been
enjoying chasing bugs. (My house is somewhat permeable to
arthropoda, unfortunately. I usually lay down a line of
Raid crawly-stuff-killer around where they seem to get in,
but I don't think I can do that now that Perrine is living
with me.) She doesn't kill the bugs as far as I can tell,
just play with them, so eventually I have to step in. She
continues to show interest in mouse activity, but the mice
are being timid. One day recently, she walked into the
kitchen and said, "Fetch me a mouse to play with." (The
combination of posture, expression, position-within-room,
and voice was surprisingly explicit -- often figuring out
what a cat wants is a guessing game, but sometimes they
might as well be speaking English.) I explained that she,
not I, was to be the fetcher of mice, but I don't know how
much of that she understood.
Her attitude/behaviour has changed as she's gotten used
to being here. She acts less needy now, not following me
from room to room all the time, but she still seems to like
to know which room I'm in, and she comes by rather frequently
to say hello. (I think the temperature of some of the rooms
of my house is a disincentive to stick to me like glue --
I think she's retreating to cooler rooms or the basement
much of the time.) She's still an incredibly sweet cat, just
no longer quite neurotic-seeming, and if I'm not available but
a guest is, she'll bug the guest for attention. And she
still pouts at me whens she sees me get dressed, and looks
sad when she sees me head to the front door. And is extra-friendly
when I come home.
Her one bad habit is swatting at my ankles as I pass by
her usual resting place in the hallway between the bedrooms,
especially if I'm on my way into the blue room (where she
is not allowed to go).
Folks who want to contribute to Perrine's upkeep: I've
got food to last for a while, but I could use help with the
cost of getting her spayed (about $42) and I'd like to get
her tested for feline leukemia before I bring her around
other cats ($30, I think), plus she needs a scratching post
(can't cost too much, right?). Any excess donations, I'll
keep careful track of to make sure I only spend that money
on taking care of her (there'll be future vet bills and
such, after all, and I don't really know how much of that).
I can accept money via PayPal (dglenn@radix.net), or you can
mail donations to 1723 W. Lombard St., Baltimore, MD, 21223,
USA. If you want to send an actual scratching post instead
of money, just ping me to make sure nobody else has gotten
ahead of you.
There's a feeling of security and calm from having a
loving cat purring against one's wrist.