i guess i'm in the minority... i think i'd find such a comment vaguely offensive. but then, i spent three years in a relationship with someone who was interested in getting me off solely because he got an ego boost out of it. it was never about making love, or even about having sex -- we rarely had actual intercourse, since he didn't seem to enjoy it. he just went straight for the sweet spot every time, and since i happen to be very, very orgasmic, it never took him long -- which meant he didn't even have to touch any other part of me, really. and that seemed to suit him fine.
it did not suit me fine. it gave me the creeps. and i wish that at some point i'd had the courage to shove him off me and say sternly, "MY ORGASM IS NOT YOUR TROPHY."
YMMV, of course. i think it depends hugely upon context. for instance, it makes considerably more sense to me within the boundaries of a BDSM relationship.
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it did not suit me fine. it gave me the creeps. and i wish that at some point i'd had the courage to shove him off me and say sternly, "MY ORGASM IS NOT YOUR TROPHY."
YMMV, of course. i think it depends hugely upon context. for instance, it makes considerably more sense to me within the boundaries of a BDSM relationship.