That might be connected, though I don't seem to have a strong "don't complain" training/voice in my head.
For me, part of it is that, while I realize that my friends don't mind making allowances, I hate that I sometimes need it, and thus don't like asking for those allowances. Which may lead to me not telling them enough, so they won't decide/offer to give me a break that I haven't already decided I want.
I am getting better at little things, like asking people "can we slow down now?" even when I have been setting the fast pace.
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For me, part of it is that, while I realize that my friends don't mind making allowances, I hate that I sometimes need it, and thus don't like asking for those allowances. Which may lead to me not telling them enough, so they won't decide/offer to give me a break that I haven't already decided I want.
I am getting better at little things, like asking people "can we slow down now?" even when I have been setting the fast pace.