Yes, Baldur is a he. You're right; his markings are similar to Lily's. (His gray is contiguous -- no spots like on Lily's shoulder -- but otherwise pretty much the same.)
It looks like Lily has longer hair than Baldur, at least on her tail.
Yes, Lily has extremely long fur on her tail. And the grey on her shoulders is a bit more broken up, she has one spot that looks like a heart on her shoulder. It's cute.
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It looks like Lily has longer hair than Baldur, at least on her tail.
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