Well, I could be wrong, but aren't most of the people who are attacked, attacked because there was a perception they came onto the attacker? In other words, there's a "oh my god I [almost] fucked that" thing going on.
I don't have any statistics to evaluate "most", but I know I've read newspaper accounts of cases where attackers went into gay bars to pick someone up for the express purpose of beating him up or worse. Isn't that what happened to Matthew Shepard?
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I could be wrong.
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But I don't really know. I do think it's disgusting. If it's not something you want, just leave it alone, sez I.