posted by [identity profile] dglenn.livejournal.com at 09:54pm on 2005-01-28
"My solution would not only give the rights everyone seems to be seekign to every one but it would also prevent the use of the 'titles' or "government acceptance of a form of sex" as a tool to attack peoples faiths in the school systems."

Do you really think that merely not having a Special Legal Status will make the abuse in schools Go Away? Wave your magic gavel and nobody sees the differences any more? The fact that the State no longer recognizes heterosexual marriages will mean the swishy kid (who may or not be gay) will suddenly stop being called "faggot" in the hall?

You're waaay off in tangent-land here.

The video doesn't say "people who are in non-traditional relationships". It says "people who are different from you".
 
posted by [identity profile] hunterkirk.livejournal.com at 10:12pm on 2005-01-28
Accual you are of tangent here. I was refering to marriage in this part of the thread. As for abuse of people in schools it should be abuse that is addressed and not the disaproval. We already have rule stateing hitting other etc "Bullying" is wrong. We we disagree is that you seem to want to add social reform in to acceptance in to the list.

I never said differances will go way. In fact what I am suggesting is the preserving of differances not the mushing away of extreme view into one state oked moral code of "respect all".
 
posted by [identity profile] dglenn.livejournal.com at 10:18pm on 2005-01-28
This entire thread is a tangent.

And nobody is saying that we must do away with differences; the program encourages respect for differences. And that implies recognition that differences exist.

It is possible to "respectfully disagree".

It is the argument that respect itself is a bad thing that troubles me.
 
posted by [identity profile] hunterkirk.livejournal.com at 10:23pm on 2005-01-28
Have you heard of the statement "respect must be earned" Respect means more then tolerance. That is were we are disconnecting. Respect means on some level you admire something. That is the danger of the word respect.

You are right though that this part of the thread is a tangent. I has nothing to do with the video or goverment pushing morals (or not) in the schools. It also has nothing to do with school violance. But I think is is worth the talking about.
 
posted by [identity profile] scruffycritter.livejournal.com at 11:39pm on 2005-01-28
Respect means on some level you admire something. That is the danger of the word respect.

This is a usage/grammar/definition issue you appear to be caught up with then.

It didn't say "pledge to respect...". It said to "pledge to have respect for..."

Ex: Tony Soprano isn't someone I'd respect, but he's certainly someone I'd have respect for.

Having Respect is a matter of staying quiet while someone gets eulogized.

We're talking about respecting people...as people and nothing more. Not as ones we like necessarily.

And you even switched usages of the word. Lets put specifics into that pledge

"I pledge to respect all Jews".

Well, no. I don't do that. I respect their choice of religion, and respect them as I would anyone else, but some Jews are SOB's just like some Christians are SOB's. I dont think you'd expect me to behave differently. Right?

Same holds true for sexual identity. People are people. Respect them as you would any one else. Sexual Identity isn't a reason to respect one any less.

Likewise, it would be insane for anyone to expect one to expect all people of a different sexual identity.

So why are you thinking that's the case now?
 
posted by [identity profile] scruffycritter.livejournal.com at 11:43pm on 2005-01-28
typo fix on 2nd to last paragraph:

Likewise, it would be insane for anyone to expect one to respect all people of a different sexual identity

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