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I started this as a followup comment to
another comment that hunterkirk posted, reacting
to my
"bigotry is not a code word" entry and the comments that
others had written to that. It got too long to fit in a
comment, and rather than split it into two or three comments, I
decided to post it as its own entry.
Sirrah, I must call "bullshit!" on what you have written here. Be you troll (as others have suggested), or 'phobe, or merely "have drunk the Kool Aid" and allowed your identification with certain conservative positions to lull you into swallowing the illogic of the rest of their propoganda unexamined, I am not certain. Following the dictum, "Do not assume malice where ignorance will suffice," I shall for the nonce assume the latter and urge you, as their puppet, to cut your strings and loose yourself from the bigots who hold you (and many other conservatives) in their thrall.
"I think you are all missing the MAIN issue here."
The main issue of my entry was their calling "bigotry" a "code word". As long as we're clear on that, fine, we can continue on to the larger issue behind this kerfuffle...
"It isn't if it is christain or not be homosexual."
And already you have misread, deliberately or otherwise! Whether it is Christian (please, if you use normal capitalization the rest of the time, give me the respect of capitalizing the name of my faith, as I capitalize the names of other faiths) to be homosexual wasn't discussed. Others have pointed out that it is un-Christian (or at least un-Christ-like) to preach hatred, or to assume smug "moral superiority" while working to make life harder for others instead of easier. So your statement here is either a clumsy misreading or a deliberate distraction. Which is it?
(But if you do want a separate discussion of whether one can be both homosexual and Christian, I've got a bundle of URLs for you.)
It is about the USA Government promoteing a political interest [...]"
WAFF is an arm of our government now?? The Disney Channel is? Nickelodeon? Or does the entire weight of your complaint rest on the fact that PBS will air the video?
Oh wait, you're probably upset that it will be distributed to public schools as well as private ones. But those are run by local governments, and presumably local attitudes and politics will determine whether the video actually gets shown in those schools. I know which way I want that decision to tilt, but you still lose the "Federal government" argument.
"[...] of a group that ISN'T legally recognized in many states."
Hmm. A group that isn't legally recognized. That sounds like a noise-phrase, meant to fill the air with an ominous tone without actually saying anything. By "group" do you mean "organization", or "class"? If you mean "class", then what do you mean by "legally recognized"? Recognized as a "suspect class" in antidiscrimination law? Recognized as a category in the gathering of statistics? A class made of of people recognized as individuals?
A video that promotes tolerance advances the political interest of "a group" ... which group? The class of "children who get picked on or bullied for being different"? Not a legally-recognized class, true, but I don't think "legally recognized" is the correct test to apply there.
Or is "a group that isn't legally recognized" itself a code-phrase for "them uppitty faggots"?
"[..] to target the children of the polutation as a whole, with out consent of the parents and with out warring, with the intent to undermine the political foe of homosexuality by targeting their children in the public school system."
"Without warning" ... IIRC, the video will be distributed in March. It's currently January. Consider yourself warned.
"Target the children" ... as we do with a hundred other messages regarding civilized behaviour (which is really what this is about), respect for law and government, belief in the American mythology, mores regarding sexual activity, recreational drugs, prioritizing education, and even nutrition. All I can say is that if you stand by this argument, I hope I don't later find you espousing teaching creationism in the schools, abstinance programs in the schools, etc.
"Political foe of homosexuality" ... No, it targets the memetic foe of tolerance. To the extent that the anti-homosexual crowd is motivated by bigotry, it undermines them as a side effect.
You ain't pro-bigotry, are ya'?
(Oddly enough, this is one place where I could utter, "But think of the children!" without irony, were it not for that phrase being so often ironic the rest of the time. Can we agree that discouraging kids from beating each other up is a good thing?)
"Now before you all get on your high horses... let me ask you this. How would you feel about a school system putting on a program for child that says "homosexuality it wrong and unnatural" with out warning you or ask for you promision? You wouldn't like it would you? Well this is what they are doing."
Well, I'd be upset ... but that is not a valid analogy! They're not saying, "conservatism is wrong," nor, "Christianity is wrong," nor "heterosexuality is wrong." They're not even saying, "conformance to conventional gender roles is wrong." They're saying, "Treating people badly just because they're different is wrong." And if you seriously think that's a bad message, then you are a dangerous, dangerous person.
So far you are five-for-five in having your arguments turn out to be straw men. Was than intentional, or had you actually been convinced when you read those arguments somewhere else? Bring me real arguments with meat on their bones instead of empty rhetoric and distractions. Convince me that you really are neither troll nore dupe. Or better yet, recant and acknowledge that one need not hold up the anti-gay end of the platform with spurious arguments in order to be a good conservative.
"I have made comments before that the school system shouldn't be a place for state morality to be forced upon our children."
Interestingly enough, the one place where you have a point is one which has been debated since before the public school system was even instituted. I'm not going to claim that a single quotation settles the matter, but I do find it interesting that when Noah Webster put forth arguments in favour of establishing public schools in the first place, he wrote, "Here the rough manners of the wilderness should be softened, and the principles of virtue and good behaviour inculcated. The virtues of men are of more consequence to society than their abilities; and for this reason, the heart should be cultivated with more assiduity than the head." (I used this as a QotD back in September.)
I say that whether this is appropriate or not is not obvious, and agree that we do have the seed of a debate there. I also wish to point out that historically, the public schools have been a place where "state morality" is thrust at children for as long as we have had public schools. (Whether the message sticks or not is another question.) So while this point does touch on the tolerance-versus-bigotry debate, it's not novel or special to the issue of this video and the reaction to it. (And somehow, I doubt the AFA would be any less worked up about the existence of the video if it were only being shown on television, so I suspect that the public-schools bit is really tangential anyhow.)
"Homosexuals do not have the right to target children for force acceptance classes."
"Acceptance" ... "tolerance" ... "not being nasty to each other". Does the video actually say, "you have to accept being gay as a Positive Thing," or merely, "gay people, and lots of other kinds of people, exist -- don't be mean to them just because they're who they are"?
And if homosexuals do not have the right to try to get that message out, do supportive hets have the right? What makes you think that it's just homosexuals who want this message spread?
"That is the REAL point of this case."
No (*sigh*) that is a set of distractions from the real point of this matter. The real point is that one bunch of people said, "Wouldn't it be nice if we didn't beat people up for being different?" and another bunch of people said, "Quick, we need excuses for saying that's a bad message so we can justify continuing to be mean to people who are different from us!".
The real point is that there are people who react to any "play nice with each other" message with cries of, "They're 'promoting' homosexuality!" to rile up anyone who can be coaxed to panic by such words.
You do not have to be a bigot (or support bigots) to be a conservative. Please do not be a bigot or promote the agenda of bigots. Just as you ought to properly chew your food before swallowing, please chew your reading material and talk-radio before swallowing its ideas, even if much of what they say agrees with you. It's easy to hide a drug -- or a poison -- inside a tasty morsel, and if you swallow it whole you'll never detect the pill until it's too late.
Indignation can be a drug. Hatred can surely be a poison. Chew.
In case anyone has forgotten grade school
There's plenty of geography and history in there, yes. There are also a variety of government and civics sections, with messages about the virtues of America, and not littering, and following rules.
Somehow, I doubt your correspondent is writing to whoever selects textbooks in his state to object that children are being taught that the U.S. Constitution is a good thing, or that they should obey the rules of their classroom. When someone believes that "raise your hand" is acceptable, but "don't bully your classmates" isn't, teaching morality isn't the issue.
Re: In case anyone has forgotten grade school
But to require a oath of the children to RESPECT (not tolerate) someones sexuality and in other class room materials linked to this program they go in to more detail on this matter... it no longer is "don't bully" but becomes "homosexuality is normal" which is a moral judgement and as such can not defending as a right of the state to teach.
Re: In case anyone has forgotten grade school
Basic respect for other humans--whether or not you think they're "normal"--is a moral and ethical teaching that is at least as important as memorizing state capitals or knowing who Johnny Appleseed was.
It is not "normal" to be unable to walk. That's no excuse for persecuting the physically handicapped.
Re: In case anyone has forgotten grade school
(And regarding "normal" -- if you can't quantify it and calculate a mean and a standard deviation, don't try to tell me what's "normal". 'Cause then "normal" pretty much just means "what I expect and fail to disagree with", and isn't useful here. If you reject things that are not normal, you reject 60-year marriages and high IQs. Pfffft on "normal"!)
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For me I am against teaching ANY morality in the school system... including state morality. Basic like listin to the teacher, don't get in to fights, and no running in the hall I have no problem with. But the school say heteroseuxal/bi/homo/BBSM/Poly etc is normal right or acceptable is teaching morality. That should be the job of parents and not the state.
Does this make the right think like me? I don't know.. never personnaly talked to the "right", but as for my morality I admit to being conservative and as such I am against large federal involvement in our lives, including the morals my child with be tought.
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(you touched on this, but I thought I'd make it more clear)
Another thing they're NOT saying is "homosexuality is right." There is no promotion involved, except encouraging kids to treat everybody else nicely.
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It's always an interesting excesize in these pases to put the word "people" in the place of groups... (and of course to reorganize the grammar.
"[...] of people that AREN'T legally recognized in many states."
Sucks the ambiguity right out of it.
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I think you got your start and end tags for italicizing reversed at the end.
I only see one rational explanation for why an "anti-gay-agenda-but-not-pro-anti-gay-violence" person might have a problem with such a program.
Every time a majority grant rights/protections to a minority, it came out of a sense of sympathy for the plight of the minority. And violence directed at a minority can result in sympathy for the agrieved. It's not that these folks necessarily want to protect the violent. It's that they don't want the horrors of the violence being spoken of for fear of the tales making their position untennable.
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Ok the first question is...
1) Is the issue of homosexualities normality or acceptance unviersally agree upon? NO. So the political debate continues on this topic.
2) Is the only way to prevent violance against homosexuals but making everyone accept them? NO. You can have a officer come to class rooms and tell people it is a crime to harm anyone not matter what race, sex, dress code, or lifestyle. This lays down the law. What is being done is a directed attempt to change the thoughts of children not to prevent violance but to make the accept homosexuality. This in the light of the current debate over the topic can ONLY be seen as a the state promoteing the political adgenda of one group.
3) Is it the state determining morals for our children? Yes just as require people to pray would be forcing morals or requireing people to study a religion would be.
The ONLY reason you are ok with this is because it is your side doing it. If it was the other side you would be yelling bloody murder and you know it. This kind of stuff does not and never should be in our school system. It no more belongs in the school system then school prayer does.
Now a point by point rebutal.
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If "the other side" means anti-gay bigots, then they really can't do "this" -- which is a program to promote tolerance and respect.
If you mean "heterosexuals", well by most definitions I am one.
If you mean "fundamentalists", fine, I can respect religous differences, and that's already included in this.
Or, since I myself am a Christian, would one example of "the other side" mean Satanists? 'Cause as much as I dislike that memeset, I grant them freedom to practice their religion and will accord them the civil respect that I give anybody else.
What's "the other side" of an effort to promote mutual respect? It has to be the anti-civility faction, n'est-ce pas? Which means, as I pointed out at the start of this comment, that they can't do this because this by its very nature is what they're against.
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Why then does this video not include polgiamists, incestual couples, and group marriages? Why are you a biggot against them?
"And already you have misread, deliberately or otherwise! Whether it is Christian (please, if you use normal capitalization the rest of the time, give me the respect of capitalizing the name of my faith, as I capitalize the names of other faiths) to be homosexual wasn't discussed."
That comment was directed toward a couple of the respondances that eluded to that. SO it wsa accurate and needed.
"WAFF is an arm of our government now?? The Disney Channel is? Nickelodeon? Or does the entire weight of your complaint rest on the fact that PBS will air the video?"
They don't need to be part of the government. If school board buy the program and run it with out consent or notifying parents then it is government back.. what was it 62,000 PUBLIC and private schools. You also notice I said nothing against the TV airing.. since parents don't have to have their children watch it. Parents HAVE TO SEND THE KIDS TO SCHOOL and as such such a covert program is PUSHING A POLITICAL ADJENDA.
"A video that promotes tolerance advances the political interest of "a group"
The program promote not tolerance but acceptance. The differance it vast. You need to look at the worksheet material to uncover it. The video in of itself isn't the problem.. the follow up class program is. Tolerance is saying to is wrong to be abuse... acceptance says they are normal and average. The title of teh program give away the goal.
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Thanks to observant conservatives Yes we have been warned but if it had not been for this warning do you honestly think the schools planed to warn parents? I don't think so. If the parents of a child doe not want their child exposed to that program they don't have a option of opting out. If the withhold their child from school the state can charge them with a crime and in extreme cases even take their children away.
"as we do with a hundred other messages regarding civilized behaviour (which is really what this is about), respect for law and government, belief in the American mythology, mores regarding sexual activity, recreational drugs, prioritizing education, and even nutrition."
Law and government is fact. Belief in American Mythology shouldn't be in the school system, sex education shouldn't be in the schools system (due in part to this very kind of abuse), recreational drugs is a health issue, prioritizing education.. you have to prioritize everything you do includeing education, and nutrition is again a health issue.
"Well, I'd be upset ... but that is not a valid analogy! They're not saying, "conservatism is wrong," nor, "Christianity is wrong," nor "heterosexuality is wrong." They're not even saying"
What are they saying "homosexuality is normal" well one the reasons people are homosexual or not has not yet been determined so making that judgement is subjective. Secondly it does say "conservative christains are not normal" because they reject homosexuality.. in fact it also says "Islam is not normal" because it also rejects homosexuality and yes even "The torah is wrong" since it also reject homosexuality.
"I also wish to point out that historically, the public schools have been a place where "state morality" is thrust at children for as long as we have had public schools."
True so we are to go the way of other great state run moralities like the Nazi's and Comminist... worked well for them. Al because it was done in the past does not make in right in the present or even in the future.
""you have to accept being gay as a Positive Thing," or merely, "gay people, and lots of other kinds of people, exist -- don't be mean to them just because they're who they are"?"
Again the trouble does not lay in the video but in the classroom program that is to be used with it. Due to the very nature of the issue parents should be notified and have the right to opt out if they feel they want to. The trouble is they are masking acceptance teaching in the code word of tolerance or diversity a tatic not new for liberal forces.
"No (*sigh*) that is a set of distractions from the real point of this matter. The real point is that one bunch of people said, "Wouldn't it be nice if we didn't beat people up for being different?" and another bunch of people said, "Quick, we need excuses for saying that's a bad message so we can justify continuing to be mean to people who are different from us!"."
No (*sigh*) the real point is that one bunch of people said "We need to make young people accept homosexuals." and other bunch of people said, "Why you do have to right to force this acceptance on my child with out my consent."
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This was not done in secret. It's featured prominently on the front page of the WAFF website. They wanted people to know it was coming. This Is Not Stealth.
"Law and government is fact."
Yes, and inculcating a value system that includes respect for them -- respect for authority -- as a good thing, that is a "values" teaching.
"Belief in American Mythology shouldn't be in the school system,"
Actually, the American mythology serves more than one purpose: in addition to being a vehicle for communicating social values the establishment considers important, it helps to reinforce the "us"-ness of our culture and pass on a cultural identity as a nation, not as a bunch of completely unrelated communities.
Good luck convincing school boards to take it out.
"sex education shouldn't be in the schools system (due in part to this very kind of abuse),"
Sex isn't as much a fact as law is? <innocent look>
"recreational drugs is a health issue,"
That's not really how they're being taught about though. The health issues are mostly brought up as scare tactics to backstop a moral agenda. Drug education could be done on a factual, health-based level, but it's not.
"prioritizing education.. you have to prioritize everything you do includeing education,"
Yes, but pushing the particular set of priorities that puts education at the top is pushing a particular value set. If you say it makes sense to do so, then fine, we agree that it is not unreasonable for a school to inculcate some values.
"and nutrition is again a health issue."
So it's important that kids learn about food-health but not sex-health?
"so we are to go the way of other great state run moralities like the Nazi's and Comminist..."
Please note that the history of our public schools being used to pass on social values has lasted longer than either National Socialism or Communism existed.
Yes, there are cautionary tales there. Trying to say that what we've done for so long is the same thing that they abused so quickly is disingenious (and it's a bit early to Godwin this, don't you think?).
"No (*sigh*) the real point is that one bunch of people said 'We need to make young people accept homosexuals.' and other bunch of people said, 'Why you do have to right to force this acceptance on my child with out my consent.'"
"We need to make the schools safer for gay kids" may have been the inspiration for this effort, but look at it and you'll see that it's not what they decided to do with it. They are in fact saying, "Wouldn't it be nice if people didn't beat each other up for being different."
And a bunch of other people reacted with, "Oh wait, but that means not even beating up the gay kids! We must protest this!" ... and have pretty much ignored the whole rest of the message.
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Are there alot of people getting beaten up because they're perceived as poligimist, incestual, or in a group marriage? I hadn't heard.
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"And already you have misread, deliberately or otherwise! Whether it is Christian [...] to be homosexual wasn't discussed."
"That comment was directed toward a couple of the respondances that eluded to that. SO it wsa accurate and needed."
Oh? Who?
So ... to whom were you responding, if you did not misread?
Either you read something into someone else's words that wasn't there, or you invented a straw man to knock down.
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You specifically complained that it was "the USA government" doing this.
It's not.
You came back and said ... uh, I'm not quite sure what you said. It sounds like it translates to "It doesn't have to be the government to be the government"...?
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You don't have to be a biggot either so let us include ALL FORMS OF SEX AS NORMAL. Or are you a biggot for rejecting incest, polygamy, group, and arranged marriages?
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You've tried to make this point before in my journal here, and it still doesn't wash.
I'm not a bigot for protecting children from abusive relatives. If it's consentual, among adult human beings, and done behind closed doors, I dont have to like it, but it's not within my power to stop the participants. Nor should it be. Not in anyone else's either IMHO.
Your idea about "privatizing" the definition of marriage still doesn't wash either. You cannot have the govt ignore everyone's marriage.
You'd have to do something about any govt benefit that provides something to a "survivor".
You'd have to redefine the tax code because filing "married" either joint or separate isn't an option anymore.
Who is a closest relative in the absence of a spouse's existence being ignored...?
And those were off the top of my head.
I find it interesting that your first impulse was to focus on sex
With that out of the way, I do not support schoolchildren ostracizing, taunting, abusing, or attacking each other because of their family structures.
Being mindful of, and wishing to protect people from, abusive relationships is another matter. Given the frequency with which the examples you chose are cited for their potential for involving abuse of power imbalance, I do think you're either setting up another straw man (if I say I oppose incest between parent and child you'll say that it's because I'm as prejudiced as a homophobe) or attempting to set a trap (if I say incestual relationships between fully-consenting adult kin with no power-imbalance factoring into their decisions are none of my business, you'll misinterpret it as supporting child abuse and paint me as a monster). I don't like that game. I don't like the third option either: that you're spouting Dittohead rhetoric in whatever order you remember it. Let's play a different game instead, one that's not so dirty. One where we argue and debate honestly instead of laying traps like that.
I oppose abusive and coercive relationships. I respect the right of consenting adults to enter into relationships that I personally find kind of squicky. And I acknowledge that each of the types of relationship you mentioned here can exist in both abusive and non-abusive forms. I don't have to accept coercive polygamy in order to respect those who are in happy, healthy group marriages (a category which includes some of my friends) or polyamourous relationships in general (a category which includes myself). I don't have to accept abusive incestual relationships in order to respect adult siblings who chose, as adults, to become romantically involved -- I don't even have to feel comfortable knowing about it to insist that they be treated respectfully, not have their tires slashed, not be called names on the street ... and not have their children taunted or bullied in school. Especially not that last bit, since whatever else, it's not the kids' fault.
And while this subthread is really no more than a petty distraction (let's face it, you're flailing here), the preceeding paragraph attempts to shift the focus a little closer to being on-topic.
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